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A sure sign of this is if the attraction is purely lust-driven and there is little to no romance or effort being made outside the gym.
Andy lives with ex-client Diane Youdale Jet from Gladiators. The couple are then free to get to know each other as with any other potential partner and it removes any need for secrecy or deceit, which are not the foundations for a healthy partnership. Clients are attracted to the stereotypical fit-looking male personal trainer.
Typically he will lavish her with compliments about her body week in and week out. That attention often fills a gap - giving her the sort of attention that she might not be receiving elsewhere. Before you know it, it's turned into something romantic or sexual. If one of my personal trainers refuses to adhere to these rules, they are out. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. No sex please, we're personal trainers! A relationship can only start after the professional one ends, says top PT who lives with ex-client Jet from Gladiators Andy McGlynn got together with ex-client Diane Youdale Jet, Gladiators Couple soon hooked up and are now living together in Manchester Lifestyle Fitness Personal Training Director for past 12 years Says he operates professional service and has 'no sex with clients' rule By Deni Kirkova Published: Share this article Share.
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You never know when a client will turn into a jealous admirer filled with insecurity, as you work with another they may label as competition. Depending on your place of employment, it is usually inappropriate to make such public exhibitions as an employee of a gym. Company policy most often prohibits blatant displays of affection between a personal trainer and their patrons, and may even institute a regulation that forbids personal trainer client dating. When crossing the line with a client, you may face job loss or receive reprimand for your actions.
While there are plenty of fish in the sea, is the one you're helping to build muscle tone worth your career?
On an ethical standpoint, some discourage personal trainer client dating because they view the act as taking advantage of a job position that sometimes places participants in vulnerable situations. When demonstrating a new strength-training exercise or spotting an increase in weight lifting, physical contact may occur. It is quite easy to misinterpret the signals that both the trainer and client may send. For some, personal trainer client dating is a practice that may also open the floodgates of suspicion if any accusations should arise.
Recently I went on vacation. She was really sad to see me go. She didn't want to train with anyone else. While on vacay I decided to text her to see how she was doing. She responded right away I don't remember anyone replying that quick ever.
We talked for a bit, then I let her go. I came back, she seemed happy to see me. We become more and more comfortable with each other each time.
Problem is, I have no idea whether she is just a friendly girl or whether she is actually flirting. I have trained countless college girls before and none were of this demeanor, so I have reason to be suspecting something. Of course since I can't guarantee it, therein lies my problem. Still, even if she was only being nice, I see no problem in trying to at least find ways to get her more interested.
Plus, the majority of my female clients are all older, anyway, and I tell you that older women don't appeal to me yes I have had sex with cougars before. It gets boring, they're not girlfriend material unless they happen to look like Juliana Marguiles or Crista Miller then we can talk. I also spend alot of time at the gym so I figure why not try pursuing a relationship there?
All of my female coworkers have boyfriends, and none of them are really that hot anyway. This girl is one of the few women at the gym besides alot of members I don't train I would actually consider something possible with. Anyway, reasons notwithstanding, I need to know if there's any way to pursue this casually so I don't come as a creep, get fired, or at the very least tarnish my good reputation at the gym. This is a tricky one.
I can't see this topic going anywhere in the Misc sorry. No cliffs No pics Wall of text Sorry bud. Ask her what she doesn't on weekends, invite her to a get together with your friends, invite her as a friend say something like "were having a get together this weekend, you should come hangout with us. Then when you guys are hanging out outside of the gym business environment it wont be "unprofessional" if you hit on her and make moves.
Believe it or not the majority of couples meet through mutual friends, school or work. Asking her out on a "date" while at work is really hit or miss.
Princess Anne tells reporters she 'has no idea' how Prince Philip is doing in wake of his car crash - as she When crossing the line with a client, you may face job loss or receive reprimand for your actions. I sense some self esteem issues your afraid to be rejected, afraid to put yourself on the line Just remember even the guys who are really really good with girls get rejected. Oh dear, fancy your personal trainer? Still, even if she was only being nice, I see no problem in trying to at least find ways to get her more interested. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. But I would say that, I am one!
Originally Posted by serjioc. Asking her out on a "date" while at work can put a lot of pressure on her and make for a weird vibe between you guys if she says no. Either do the friendly thing, or just wait for her to come on strong.