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A zoomed in pic of your face gives us an idea of how your face looks, which is great, but we also without swiping more or asking for additional photos want to know how your body looks.
The Gay Man's guide to creating a profile that speaks to who you are. Plus: two profile red flags to look out for. And whether it’s Tinder, Bumble, CoffeeMeetsBagel, cellotonica.com, POF, OkCupid, MillionaireMatch or one of the many others, your dating profile is truly make or break. You’re just about to see 8 irresistibly attractive online dating profile examples for guys that you can use today!.
Body included. Too basic. Steer clear of this. If you have a great chest and big arms, then maybe a shirtless selfie at the beach is in order. You may not necessarily want to post a pic of you posing and flexing in a Speedo.
You can, but some men might be turned off by it because they find it shallow or too self-absorbed. Similarly, if you have a really nice behind, you should definitely try to somehow incorporate that into the shot as well. Not a zoom-in of your butt, though. Be creative and see if you can subtly get your derriere in the pic.
Truly, it is. So make sure to be alone in your profile pics. In other words, a blank, deadless face is a no go. Gay Nerd logic and advice on you guys. Follow these tips if you want to increase the number of quality dates that you have.
Resnick has made his living off of that ever since. Looking for: Nothing too serious, but someone to actually connect with. At most, there should be two paragraphs per section. Lately my hobbies include weightlifting, and tinkering with music no, I will not call myself a DJ. Hell no. He desperately wants a committed, long-term relationship , but is struggling to make it past consistent hook-ups. What Now?
This article is going to focus on how to get quality dates, not hookups. This is rule 1 for a reason. Following this rule will instantly cut through the majority of the bull that you will deal with.
Have a cute picture of yourself 3 years and 10 lbs. Be truthful about things. Also, your profile has to sound like you. You come off as pompous and worst case, pretty dumb if you use the words wrong.
You want to give people the chance to know you as you are. Now, it sounds like this could contradict rule 1 but you still should never lie or misrepresent yourself. There should be pictures of you on a trail of some sort. Looking for a perpetual player 2? Talk about your game collection.
Everyone has a type of person that they want. At most, there should be two paragraphs per section. Plus, you want to have something to talk about when you go on your date.
You need to leave an open question or an obvious way in of some sort. That way, people who like you have an instant way to start a conversation with you or an opening line to send a message to you. A good example would be like going on a rant about something. Frankly, both types of profiles wave red flags. Guy 1 and Guy 2 may have nice photos and stats, but both speak in ultimatums and mandates. Now go back and read my two paragraphs. Do you see the difference between how I stated my preference and how Guy 1 and Guy 2 did? I frame everything in positive affirmations. I hit the gym. I practice yoga.
I spend time with my family. I list what makes me happy—neither as judgment nor ultimatum—as simple, joyous affirmation. Joe Valero is a meditating and yoga-practicing entrepreneur in the Denver area. You can often find him at the gym or writing fantasy novels in a coffee shop. MeetMindful is the first online dating site to serve the mindful lifestyle. Sign up for expert wisdom, inspiring articles, and the latest from our blog right to your inbox.
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