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All of that is guaranteed to end in failure in real life.
As all the girls here have said, personality matters. That means you've got to have confidence in yourself, your beliefs and your abilities. It's totally possible to develop your confidence and your social skills--it just takes some dedicated work. Most "nerdy" guys are more than capable of putting in the work to get results. Where a lot of them fail is in thinking it's hopeless and in not trying to make any changes to improve their love lives. As one of the greatest nerds ever said, "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
I think it's tough to say. Since you are in the year old range, I'd say that it would be tough.
I've never seen stuff like that happen in real life. Besides maybe a few examples, most "cliques" tend to stay close to what they know, meaning someone from their own social circle or one that they can feel comfortable with. So if you are way outside of this by whatever definition of "nerd" that you are, it's going to be down to your abilities to talk to them I'd say.
One of my buddies Googled something about Hooters girls and happened to find a link that said something along the lines of "Would a Hooters girl ever date anyone other than the really desirable men? A lot of what the people said it was on Yahoo Answers was basically that you would need to be a smooth talker, otherwise no. I guess I could understand this somewhat. If you aren't a "normal" socializer then I'd say it's going to be hard for you to connect with ANYONE, let alone this pretty girl you want to talk to. But I guess if you could speak well enough and could really let her see what you're all about, then they might be alright with you and your so-called nerdiness.
But I'd say don't listen to me lol, I'm just as lost on the whole topic of girls lately. As much as I want to believe the girls that answered here, I'm still skeptical for some reason. I was just asking a question my good man. I understand the level of difficulty it is for a mostly unnattractive male to get a sexy popular girl. Which is why it makes such good movies! But in reality it is just nearly impossible. I wouldn't go as far as to say it's nearly impossible, but it does seem like it's a lot harder to do than what most make it seem.
I don't know, that's just me. I'm not Super Intelligent but I'm into comics and other things: P During my time, I've yet to even be glanced at with any signs of attraction, so Hollywood is definitely a big fat liar D:. Sure, if teh girl is ASian, or if she's just a good woman. Happens a lot more often than yu'd think from the media. Impossible, women are hardwired to be attracted to dominant men, women see nerds as weak, I could go on and on, in other words any nerd would be lucky to be with an ugly girl. If human-kind has the ability to invent a space-shuttle, then by all means I could be called a 'nerd'.
Two of my exes are quite hot girls. I've aways conidered my wife to be one too. Hahaha I've actually read that article before. I thought it was pretty funny and is a fresh alternative to all the stupid pickup artist "YOU can be a ladies man, too!
I'd have to read the article again to find out if I actually think any of it is true. You do that and tell me what you think. I'm still questioning it myself but everything seems to lead to it being true. Simply because all of my nerdy friends from high school are in relationships, and allot of the regular guys who seem like they could get girls are single.
Yeah I'll read it again. I actually use that article's definition of geek when I happen to be talking about what I think a geek is. It's funny, but it's true too. It might work in clubs which is what it's marketed for , but show me a large group of girls that act the same in both a club and in real life. I don't trust PUAs either. Allot of girls go for guys that are in their friend groups, no matter how weird or nerdy.
As long as they both get to know each other and connect she will go for him because she feels comfortable with him. Just goes to show you how getting girls can differ on the situation. Club girls are easy to get for any jerk.
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Outside however where things matter.. Which is exactly why I have always scratched my head when hearing PUAs talk. They seem very contradicting and fake. Even if I were to read into what they said, it would've been an act for me. I know that I'm not that kind of guy, so keeping up this persona would be very exhausting to say the least. And I agree about girls sticking within their social circles. And that is my biggest problem and challenge- I don't belong to any of them and don't know how to break into them.
The game only works on girls who aren't very smart and are distracted by flash. If some guy tried to use a neg on me he'd get one back. Yup- I understand it helps some guys get confidence but that's not the way to get a girl or at least one you'd actually want.
Oh trust me, I feel the same way. They seem to have a few good points on making guys not get wrapped up in 1 girl, not feel crushed if they get rejected, things like that. But the more "advanced" they get into their game, the stupider and more fake it sounds to me.
Is it possible for the nerd to get the hot girl?
I found it funny one day when I came across this forum devoted to PUAs. They almost sound like a bunch of nerds on there, except with arrogance problems and high testosterone lol. It's doesn't really give confidence it gives arrogance. Confidence won't normally turn people off but these guys have gone beyond that.
No girl in her right mind wants a man in a feather boa or sparkle leather pants, telling them that they are going to be taken out weather they like it or not. We want romance- like you're the most beautiful girl in here Not I usually hate girls in black dresses but you look great in it. At least with arrogance it gets him out and experiencing the world. He can fine tune it with experience, but at least he has the balls to be out with girls at that point.
I'd always go for the wallflower myself. I don't really mind asking guys out or sparking up conversations, though I don't really have to, one I'm engaged, two I get enough attention as it is. I can kinda understand what you mean though. Last night a reasonably attractive guy had his friend ask me if I had a boyfriend for him. Obviously I do but even if I didn't I would of told the friend, that unless the guy asks me himself it's not happening. Shy is one thing coward is another.
Is it possible for the nerd to get the hot girl? Is it real or is it fake? What you see on television all the time, the nerdy guy getting the hot girl of his dreams. Is that only a fantasy or is there hot girls out there who would actually give the ugly nerdy guy a chance? Despite all the yes and no on here it seems as though no one has a definite clue as to how the nerd can get the hot girl. Its a long explaination but to put it simple the answer is yes. The nerd is very likely to get the hot girl. I was asked to explain.
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Its all about chemistry to its core. If the asshole guy can get the girl simply by abusing her mentally then the nerdy guy can get the girl by literally 'boring' her. It sounds far-fetched and even down right stupid but its a strange thing, this chemistry. For further explaining here's a link that goes into long detail. Be prepared to read.