A 16 year old and a 20 year old dating

Should a 21 year old be dating a 16 year old?

Karrah I really have to tell you that your really wrong about all of this. One Age is but a number, If you are 24 and you date a 20 year old that ok right? You take about the law like you obey everything it tells. And if you do that a little sad. Anyways If the girl doesnt tell her parents. People in this society over judge and make a problem out of things that are not that bad.

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So what a 20 dating a I'm 20 and i dated a 16 year old before and I'm proud of saying it. We broke up because of parents and I'm over her because it been like a year. I'm not sure where I'm going with life but if you karrah are only marring a guy that successful and Has a future then you really don't know what love is. I am applying for a job and soon will be living alone. And Btw the last time I checked There is no age to "move in the real world' because When you go outside you are in the real world. Anyway I would wish you take down your comment because you are only basing your judgement on the law side.

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She probably has the mentality of an 18 year old and you being a guy the mentality of an 18 year old. News and lifestyle forums. Why not reply to an un-answered thread? Students reveal all here Well, I mean, it's a matter of maturity.

One more thing You can't say how long they are going to last because you don't know how far they are going to go. And the laws says having sex is illeagl not dating so therefore they aren't doing anything wrong. I am 16 years old and am dating a 20 year old.

I'll be 17 in about a month. I'm a high school drop out. I can be mature and immature. But I can be mature in some cases. But it depends on the case. Anyway I've been dating my bf before he turned I started dating him when I was 2 months after I turned So we've been dating for about 8 months now. He is respectful to me and doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do.

Also he isn't living his own life yet into the real world because he still lives with his parents. And also my grandparents which are my legal guardians were aware of his age. And became aware of us having sex. We use protection so I don't get pregnant. But we got caught by law and I don't see why they are making a big deal seeing how I'm almost 17 now. Once I'm 17 they can't do much. Because in NY 17 is legal age of consent. If ur older than 13 but younger than 16 can consent to a person who is no more than 4 years apart. And it says it right in the law. I'm 46 and started dating my Husband when I was 16 he was Everyone loved him and never noticed the age difference.

Tolwan Not necessarily true.

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Oh, my bad, it's 16 in Australia US law must be different. I see no problems. Just wait until they break up. Cedmln Follow Forum Posts: Cedmln Isn't it legal for them to have some types of sex? Bill's case was different than what i'm trying to say, lol. But if they do have sex it's "rape". Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex. Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex That is simply not true.

GenTom Follow Forum Posts: She is 14 and he is Your mate should be locked up, can he not get chicks his age? KisukexD Follow Forum Posts: As long as they love each other and are happy together, I see no problem with it. Or am I mistaken?

Meh I have heard stranger stories. Thats quite bad, but if their happy, let them be No, 21 year olds only go out with 16 year olds if they can't pull a 21 year old. A male thats 21 and a femal thats 16 is not legal. If the guy is 18, the femal by law needs to be over 18 too..

I don't see any problem with a 21 year old and a 16 year old, as long as they are looking out for each others best interests and the guy isn't taking advantage.. Abby88 Follow Forum Posts: I don't know about American law, but in Australia, they can be allowed to have a relationship theres no term for it legally, or I would have heard of it by now: P but they won't be legally allowed to have sex read: Like the dude hasn't fully grown out of his teenage years.

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I'm 16 and I wouldn't date a 20 year old. I'd seriously wonder why a 20 year old would want to date a 16 year old if I were you. Are still stuck in that teenagery state of mind, 2. Are somehow socially or emotionally stunted to where people in their own age group aren't interested in them, or 3. Seriously, you might be on the same physical level as them, but socially and emotionally you really aren't.

You're, what, a sophomore or junior in high school? They're a sophomore or junior in college. You likely live with your parents, they likely live at least semi on their own. You probably don't even have your after 9's, they're almost able to legally drink in America. Most young adults can't wait to get away from the teenager state of being, high school, etc. I would seriously examine your partner's motives behind being with you. If it's illegal then it's not a good thing tbh I was in a relationship w a 20 yr old at It ended badly bc we were in two totally different spots in life also it had a weird dynamic of like him taking care of me bc I was basically a child so he'd drive me places and make sure I was okay and support me.

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The age of consent laws are more complicated than just being You should read up on them your reigon. I had a relationship with a 21 year old when I was 16 he had the maturity of a damn 16 year old but whatever, that's another story , parents didn't approve of it and he wasn't allowed over any more after they found out that we were sexually active, but friends didn't care and actually thought it was kinda cool.

AOC here is 16 so don't worry.

I think that's fine, really. I go by the 4 year rule; if you're over 4 years apart, it's weird.

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Hi there. Before anyone jumps to conclusions I havent dated or slept with a 16 year old etc. Im posting this because I want to gather some. As has been noted, you can a year-old to date, but in almost all instances, of 14–16 were all dating older men, some as young as 20, some as old as

You guys are 4 years apart, so you're cutting it kinda close, but I think it's fine. I honestly don't know. I just take my age minus theirs and if the absolute value of that is more than 4, it's weird. Well, judging by the fact you've got 4 points and I don't have any, I'd say I'm the one with the weird method. To express my point with logical extremes, i think we can agree that a 60 year old with a 64 year old is nothing strange, but that a 14 year old dating a 10 year old is very odd.