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Maybe initially they were approachable and keen, then after a while seem distant and unavailable. If someone is playing hard to get they will avoid hurting your feelings unnecessarily. Someone who is uninterested will just leave you hanging. They will also probably have another time and date in mind so you two can get together.
The uninterested person, if they have agreed to a date will not have a clear idea of when you can meet again in the future. The hard to get player will take a genuine interest in your life. They will remember things that you have told them and will try to bring up common interests in conversation. The uninterested person will remember very little of what you have told them and will try their best to avoid asking you anything too personal.
Quite often this type of person just needs someone to talk to or to give them advice. You might have told all your friends that you are done with playing games, and you just want to be honest with the next person you date. Well, perhaps you should hold your horses! Unfortunately this means seems to be broken. Broken in the sense that he has no self-esteem no self-confidence and does not value or love him self.
And if you cannot love yourself you cannot truly love another person. With him being incarcerated and involved with illegal drugs I suggest you not pursue him because your future will not be bright. He will continue taking money from you not lifting a finger to support his own Habit and things will go downhill. You need to love someone that loves you. You are an opportunity to him but he will take advantage of until he bleeds you dry of money and bleed you dry of love. Men like this habit and things will go downhill. Men like this need an ego boost much like a narcissistic does to thrive on.
I promise you when they are done using you for whatever it is that they wanted from you they will move onto the next person and you will be left hurt and afraid to trust anyone again. You deserve better than that and you definitely do not want to be involved with somebody that is irresponsible and breaking the law and involved in drugs. They will only take you down with them and leave you in the dust.
You need to realize that as much as you do love him, you have more to offer and you are more valuable.
So you can attract somebody more valuable and you will find that the love you have for him is nothing compared to the love that is out there for you. You need somebody that is stable and somebody that has some confidence and someone that likes them selves loves them selves. My Boyfriend and I broke up last week, due to the fact that he became super controlling etc needless to say Weve been doing this dance for over 2 years, break up make up. Today he tells me hes already in another city and he plans on staying there since I forced this due to me breaking up, this is hes reaction.
Im so hurt and confused and mostly shocked,hes been sending me photos of where hes staying etc. I think Ive been on the fence about the future and us getting married etc. I feel like Im backed into a corner, was never prepared to get this news. The reason why he became super controlling is either he or you, did something bad, and never talked about it..
That is great that your are aware of yourself and that you are getting counseling. You will get better! Easy you get into your truck and you find him if hes not at home hes close by, if you know him like you say you do take that leap and knock o. Guys are not inclined to playing mind games the way women are. They are hard wired to use brute force, not manipulation.
When I finally returned, the relationship resumed as before. Then, something else major came up, and so I decreased my Facebook participation.
Again, I got the cold shoulder from her. Disgusted, I closed my FB account. She emailed me two weeks later and asked if I was mad at her.
A week has passed. Try to give him the space he needs. This will also tell him that you can survive easily without this relationship. Even after giving him space for a considerable number of days, if he doesn't turn up, confront him about your relationship status. This conversation can be a maker or breaker, so watch your words carefully. I guess most girls must have had such boyfriends at some point in time, who claimed that their friends didn't approve of their relationship.
Many guys try to create a rift between their friends and girlfriends, by telling both the parties stories about possessiveness of the other person.
This creates resentment and anger between both, their girlfriends and friends. They start hating each other, and the boyfriend only keeps adding fuel to the fire. He will love to sit back and watch the fun of the tug-of-war over him, between his girlfriend and friends. Don't give him a chance to manipulate you in this fashion. Right from the beginning, have cordial relations with his friends. Make them your friends. In fact, you should be so friendly, that if a dispute occurs between your beau and yourself, they will take your side. Even if there are misunderstandings between you and his friends, you can take the initiative to bury the hatchet.
So, you meet this wonderful person on Facebook, and you chatted with him day and night.
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Both of you start feeling that you have met your soulmates. He tells you that he is into finance. You decide to meet up, and the date goes very well. You both get involved in a strong relationship. Only a few days later, you find out from a third person that he has lied to you about his career, and actually owns a store. While his career choice would have hardly mattered to you, his lying will make you wonder if he is a genuine person.
As trust is often compared with paper, which once crumpled cannot be straightened, you will not be able to get along with this person. He is lying about being someone else or having some qualities, only to impress you. If you are dating a person who is making tall claims about his career and lifestyle, it is advisable that you investigate what he says holds true.
This will only help you avoid a terrible heartache in future. A point to note is that, not all men are like this. Nevertheless, apart from the ones mentioned above, there are also the 'getting secretive' game, 'getting aggressive' game, 'making feel guilty game', 'commitment phobia' game, 'cheating because I love you' game, 'silent treatment' game, etc. Men play mind games with women even in the simplest of ways.
But, now that you understand the mind games men play in relationships, you will be able to recognize them instantly, and cope with them in a better manner. Not only that, you will be able to 'checkmate' them even before they start playing complicated mind games with you. Relationship Advice for Women on Understanding Men.
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