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So about 2 years of our relationship has been long distance as we attend different colleges and dont really see each other aside from winter break, summer break, etc. So it was just kindve confusing for the both of us…. Anyways, last April I met some girl at a track meet, and was just being nice…. Anyways she told me that she really likes me and to be honest I thought she was attractive and wanted to get to know her more….
So, when college ended in late May, I was back with my girlfriend, but the whole summer I was just kept curious about the girl I met at college…. Anyways, the girl had posted a harmless picture of the 2 of us at the beach it was a track party so the whole team was there , and my girlfriend was NOT happy at all…. I was still so curious about the girl from college… However my girlfriend and I still hung out all summer and that connection was definitely still there and I enjoyed every single second of being in her company….
Now towards the beginning of summer I had talked to people about possibly breaking up with my girlfriend to explore my curiosities with the college girl…. Again… she spent that whole summer trying to win me over with cute notes, little gifts, voicemails, etc…. I went out of my comfort zone with meeting girls and trying new things this whole semester, and towards the ending of October I literally had an epiphany…. I knew that I needed my girlfriend back. Not a doubt in my mind….
However, I learned that she started seeing another guy at her college since the beginning of September… this crushed me… seeing her with another guy was the worst possible thing for me. She had been keeping it quiet on social media, but then I saw a picture and unfollowed her from all social media immediately to prevent myself from being hurt.
I had written this letter specifically intended so that my ex girlfriend could read it when we finally met up…. I wrote the letter not holding back anything… I told her I wanted her back and that I was sure that me and her were meant to be together, I recalled past happy memories, I brought up the fact that I have the madonna whore-complex, and a whole bunch of other personal, relationship stuff….
We talked a little after she read it, and she just basically said that the letter came too late, and that she needed the letter of assurance before summer ended…. Anyways, it just sucked to hear her say she was in a serious relationship, and it just confused me because that summer she spent so much energy on trying to win me back, and sending me assuring notes and voicemails,etc…. I know the kindve person she is, and that is a long-term relationship person…. This is all stuff I told her in that letter too… so she knows how I feel. She probably thinks I sound so desperate.
I told her I still have a few things I want to tell her which is basically just my reflection from when we finally saw each other and the past few days. But she is being like way too nice about it…. I know this is a long ass story but I would really appreciate any feedback… thanks a lot. Please ask this question on our relationship forum https: So I started reading your question when I realized it smelt like burning toast.
Putting my tablet in my nightstand drawer, I went to the kitchen and to my horror, the toaster oven had caught fire! After several attempts to put the fire out, it started burning uncontrollably and the curtains caught fire. In a panic, I dialled but the it was too late.
When I came to, a handsome firefighter loomed over me. Am I in heaven? All my future goals could still come to fruition. Suddenly, fear sunk in. Upon leaving the hospital, where would I go? I had no insurance, no money and nowhere to live afterwards. It was to my pure luck, that once again, Dave saved me.
He invited me into his home with his wife. She was short and sweet, but very feisty with severe alcoholism. I realized that my hero was suffering. I tried consoling him, helping care for his wife.
It was not but weeks later when she landed in jail for crashing her Mercedes into a busy shopping centre. Throughout her sentence, I stayed with Dave and eventually, a friendship formed, which eventually blossomed into a full blown affair. Years passed, we got married but had no children. It was a personal choice. I myself, secretly liked going into my nightstand before bed and read the same romance novel that put me right to sleep, everytime. It reminded me of how simple life was before loving another before yourself.
It is with deep regret that is took me 30 years of trying to finish this novel every night, before I realized that it was simply a question on this forum. Unfortunately, I have never finished reading it over these 30 years, but I thank you for giving me quality bedtime reading material that always puts me straight to a deep slumber. I dated a girl for the past 2. We were our first everything. We became toxic due to not knowing how to be in a relationship. We constantly talked about marriage and our future.
We had the most love and passion for eachother but lead ourselves in to constant break ups. We always got back together after a couple of days though. However, we had a falling out that lasted a few weeks with no communication. I decided to try again with her but was very cautious the whole time.
We actually got to a really great place. But she dropped the bomb on me that her and her family were moving from California to Texas. She wanted me to come but I was scared. She moved and I had a plane trip to visit in 6 weeks. After 2 weeks she ended things completely at random and got a new boyfriend he same day.
I then find out that day she's already dating another guy, (less then two months after our breakup). Then the next day she responds to my text apologizing for not . That gut-wrenching moment when you find out your ex has moved on with someone else. someone has dated a guy/girl and it hasn't worked out because they the instant reassurance and confidence boost – dating someone else. . when she already had another man, he broke them up and got my.
She has been with this new guy for three months now. She is only 21 and going through a rough stage of her life I. I still love her to death. I would do anything to be back with her. I made MANY mistakes. There was never any infidelity, only lack of communication and reciprocation. Last time I talked to her she said she was going to marry this guy. It just all seems so fast and very unlike her. What can I do to get another chance?
Would you consider this guy a rebound, even after three months? She was was a close relative of one of my in laws!!! When we dated, she had plans to settle down and get married. I definitely wanted to marry her, but I wanted to take it step by step. Things started off lovely at first. She invited me to invited me to her church.
We went boat ride to get together, then we went to the an amusement park afterwards. We both were on social media. Then one day she noticed that about of a bunch of porn was posted on my page and she grew discussed. I tried to explain to her that I would handle this issue and block those people posted that stuff which I did. But she still was not going for that. She has some relatives we were friends we with on social media before we even hooked up and started dating.
Let me remind you that when we dated, this a a lady that did not have much. Plus she was single mom. She goes to church alot and she always keeps me in her prayers.