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Quite a lot going on. He did apologize saying things were chaotic. I have had to force myself to not contact him every day like I want. I started talking to a guy that put it out there that he was single with a dog.
Tags: advice for dating, advice unrequited love, boyfriend doesn't call, date advice, dating advice, dating love advice, doesn't call, flirting tips, flirting tips for shy. The guy who never introduces you to his friends, but he's met all your friends and The guy who will never commit, which you're aware of, yet you keep dating because you think he's The guy who only texts and never calls.
I ended up having to go to his job for something. He apologized and said he would do better and he asked me to be patient with him since he has a lot going on with work. He seems like a good guy and I like him.
I have a big problem with the communication break down. Should I keep being patient or move on? Actually i met this guy, well he went to school with me years ago, and he recently started wanting to talk to me, so I gave him my number and we started off really good you know. There is a but here though.. And after that well it was more comfortable I could say.. I ask him what his plans are, to see if we can maybe hang out, see each other but he always has an excuse.
I understand work could be busy but never has time for me. And it keeps getting worse. Can you please help me here!? Idk what to do either. Hi Sabrina, despite your post was very long I got through it. I think that the guy was using you for an ego boost, it seems like he has put you in the category as a side girl sorry to break it to you. You also mentioned he never spoke to you, throughout all of and that is too long of a time to think there is a potential for a relationship.
I understand you have feelings for him but what you have to understand is if he really, wanted to be with you he would have dated you. And made you his girlfriend. And I will say this to you as a woman that you were wrong sleeping with a married man. You have completely let him know he can have you, when he wants you. Stop putting him on a pedestal and making him your priority, because from where I am standing he has clearly made you an option. He sounds very immature. He would have taken you a lot more serious, instead o hooking up with models.
If I am wrong on that part let me know. Although so much time has passed now, and that you are still in love with him, you should try one last time and let him know that you are into him and that you want to be with him, and that you have feelings for him. We had a special connection, and I have never been able to find that with anyone else.
Do you think you could see me as your woman? And give us a chance for us to get to know one another again? You think about what I have said, and get back to me in two weeks and let me know your decision, so I can know whether to hang on to my feelings for you, or for me to hold my head up high and walk away for good this time. That is my advice and thoughts on it.
Good luck in your love life. I would like to know what i did wrong or what i did to get soo much bad luck with men. I live with my boyfriend in a duplex. I did everything he asked all the time.
I stopped visiting my family and my one actual friend i had for years just because supposed to be i was never home. When he used to go to work i would go visit because i felt lonely. I hate being alone. It freaks me out. I changed everything of myself just so he could be happy and he never was. I started cooking and cleaning more often and he was never happy. He always found away to hert my feelings. But no he was always saying i eat too much or saying im fat that i meed to go run or that i have a big stomach and making me feel worse. He used to give me money for me so i can buy something or eat but now he never has money and hes always talking to other people on Facebook and i found soooooo many women he tqlks n flirts to.
And tells them he woke up with feelings of being with them etc. And he has made me feel like trash. He never has time to call me anymore when he gets off of work not even a txt like he used to but yet he always has time to get on Facebook. He always rubbs in my face the things he gives me but i never do. I could be sick and he would make me get up and make him something or a coffe. I have had to invite him to eat or the movies so he could go out sonewhere with me.
So i want to know what is it that i did wrong?
What did i not do just make him happy and he never appreciate. Please help me turn things around or should i just give up and let him go? What did you do wrong? What would I do if I were you? If YOU are not comfortable with your weight or how you look, make a commitment with yourself that you will slowly but surely improve those areas or things you dislike. The only person that can make you feel inferior is yourself. If you set yourself a small goal and achieve it you can set a slightly bigger goal and so on… as you go on achieving these goals you are automatically going to start feeling better.
Post this on my mirror!! Some feel intimidated, so… to not look desperate they will not call for two or three days. Now there is one that is not very common but exist. That reason might be you are out of his league for financial reasons or because you are really hot, etc…. I know this post is old and maybe no one will read it.
I went on date with a man who I met through business transactions. He asked me out for lunch and we spent the rest of the day together. He text me all night and than the next day I said hello, there was no response and the next no reply. I said to myself , what the hell. I am better than that.
I am open and I try to express this to anyone I am with. If you have to go by some rules or codes of dating I am not a good match. If I am not interested in someone I tell them. I will have to see him again and when I do, I wont let it bother me. Actions to me speak louder than words. Actions speaks to me — about your creator and who you are. Not answering someone text is rude and shows again what you might expect going forward. Many of you ladies have been waiting months, some years and some minutes.
You are much better than that. If he wants you , you wont have to chase him. You wont have to wait for his next call or text. Never put all your eggs in one basket. Continue on with your life and find someone worthy of your time. I am very open with my feelings…. I realize that I have issues with self confidence and am trying really hard to feel more confident…. Unfortunately the rules are an ugly truth.
Im a happy camper now by living religiously by them. The promises are being manifested in my life.
Guys who are mad about you, and will treat you like a princess if given the chance, will call the next day. This indicates straight away that it was never going to be serious… and if you were okay with that, great, but it sounds like you may have had some emotional investment. I hate the judgement you gave and it feels so negative and old fashion. Sometimes we want to get that guy who is absent physically and mostly absent emotionally. Omg same story here but then after 2 days he did not call me, i think its because i told him that i was going to spend time with my friend who came to visit me from far away but then i was like why he does not message me. Stop chasing him and use your beauty on a man who is interested in you.
Sabrina Alex you have been a great mentor in my life so far. Advice to give to people.