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The less I care and the less effort I put in, the more I'm chased which doesn't interest me. I enjoy my life with my friends, and enjoy my non standard lifestyle for this city , so I'll save my emotional energy for those that are stable in my life. I find generally the only time I'm unhappy with my life is after almost finding something stable and having it fall apart.
Is life enhanced by a good relationship? Of course it is. Is it worth the crash afterwards when fast dating strikes again?
I'm having more and more doubts, and becoming more and more sure of just getting a vasectomy and never worrying about it. Yea the last woman I was seeing things were good, and she was open about not being ready for anything serious. But it just became strained because we'd talk about our weeks and she'd get awkward about a blank, which would be when she'd gone on another date.
Eventually she just started becoming quite defensive, a little aggressive, and it all just fell apart. The last few people I've dated I have given myself a bit of time afterwards before the next, but this time around I'm just straight back on tinder, why beat myself up over someone that wasn't interested and make it harder to rebuild that confidence again in 3 months time?
Dude, 27 and my wife of 7 years is leaving me. She's naturally a head turner, and I'm the kind of person that you grow to love once you get to know me. I'm not ugly, or at least I don't feel I am, but I'm no head turner myself. I'm fucking terrified at this point. Even though I feel I'm a catch. Make 70k a year, caring, stable, own my own home, etc.
Sorry to hear dude: I've changed so much even in the past four years or so and I worry I don't even know what I want anymore. It does sound like you're ahead of the game in a lot of ways, from my female perspective. Hahaha you gave me hope that you're female TBH. Yeah, I guess you could say that.
More like she grew away from. Every decision I've made, every feeling about someone or something that I've passed up, divorce simply wasn't an acceptable route for me. For her, I think she always had her eye on the could-have-beens and should-have-dones. She had to be if she was able to justify what she's done to me so far. I mean, she's literally stabbed me through the heart and just kind of moved on. All that love that I thought I had seen from her had literally vanished over the course of a weekend. Sounds rough as hell and nobody should have to go through that. Doing a second reply so it doesn't get lost in an edit.
Dating is never not weird if we're going to be honest with ourselves. It just changes weirdness over time. I didn't get banned but I did stop posting there in large part because of all the snarky comments the mods were constantly making. They are rude af and way too focused on every thread being "high quality. I'm not sure there's any good advice on there whatsoever. Lol, datingoverthirty banned me too ,due to a thread i created, which wasnt rude or in bad taste but did get a lot of negative feedback per the mod.
View my history to see it. You get a lot of divorcees, single moms and just your average run of the mill 30 something single female complaining that guys her age are dating younger girls.
Wow, what a novel concept. It's as if everyone else still feels the same way! I [F] dated a younger man, and it rocked. Had he been capable of a LTR I'd still be with him.
If a younger man approached me now who seemed serious not just hookups or mindlessly exploring I'd be fine with it. Idea of dating significantly older than me kinda creeps me out. You need to put yourself in an environment where you can talk to half the people in the room about your hobby and they are going to want to talk about it.
I would also make your intentions clear very early to women you see compatibility with and ask if they would like to date - like seriously ask. Also, be honest with yourself. Know what you want and communicate those needs as they come up. All successful relationships require in order 1.
Mutual respect as humans 2. Common life paths 4. Im really comfortable with myself now. But since I was under a dark cloud in my 20s its like I'm Everyone of my age is now done in. Like Im a person that missed a decade and now I'm out of cryofreeze. So is this where all the men dating in their thirties went to? I noticed I posted on there, hoping for some male perspective and it was all replies from women.
Turns into bit of an echo chamber. Dating in my 30's can be summarized in one word: I found a lot of crazy out there and thought I'd be alone the rest of my life. Things can change quickly though, and I'm now married to someone who fits me perfectly. Our daughter also makes us grateful every day for the good fortune. A lot of the quality women get taken off the dating market in their 20s, which means fewer high caliber dateable women in their 30s. Seems like my best experiences have been dating younger and when i date my own age 30s, oh boy, do i meet the CRAZY women.
I myself am trying to connect at this age but it's extremely hard.
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I have friends similar to your friends situations, and it's like when is my time going to happen. I've been on a couple of dates but I didn't feel the connection.
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The playing field has changed: There is a shift that takes place slowly over the years. As friends pair off, your social circle changes and there is a shift with time and life lived - singles in this age group adjust to a new understanding about meeting new people. Looking for something a little more serious, the rules are different.
It's tough stuff out there: At times it can feel like a hard slog out there. For women, the sporadic comment referring to the infernal tick-tock of your biological clock or for men, feeling like all the single ladies are already off the market, means that dating in your 30s is tough stuff sometimes.