Dating my dads girlfriends son

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So I told my husband about it, he comfronted my boy and he said, Yes, the girl came to my house but only help him clean his room and did the laundry. My son sent me tx message saying he was sorry that he lied to me! He only said the girl didn't come to the house because he got panicked when I asked him if the girl came and if he said yes that I'm gonna get mad.

So my question is, what should I do?

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I feel bad about my son lying to me of her. And honestly, I didn't like the girl for my son! And now that he is lying to me and looks like he's protecting her from me, I feel so betrayed! I am crying because I was hurt of what he did! He said sorry but it didn't change the the fact that he lied to me! Please help me what to do and how would I feel better because I don't know what to say , I feel betrayed.. I don't want to talk to my son.

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I don't trust him with her anymore! Please help me what to do! All I want is for my son to finish college first before getting into a relationship.

I didn't want the idea of that girl always around my son Please give me an advise. How about when your son is abusive to his girlfriend treats her like crap hits her slaps her does horrible things to her and he blames her. I think then the girlfriend deserves better than your son.

Chances are he's going to keep being abusive to his girlfriends until he chooses to change. I say then support the girlfriend don't put up with ugly behavior from your son towards women. Good for you, Bill. She sounds like an extremely insecure person who needs to self-protect. Your son must be a person who sees the good in all people and who tries to fix them. It's hard to talk to your adult child about his choice of mate because he will see it as yet another reason to protect her. We did not attack our son's former girlfriend but we only continually expressed our love for him.

When the opportunity arose, we did mention that it might be a good idea to look into their future together to see what type of mother and wife she would make because he would have to fill in for any of her deficits there. He saw that her depression, dark attitude, and erratic behavior would not be good for children and that his life would be forever difficult. I don't know if you read about my dream but the best thing you can do is to remind your son always about your love for him and that is a love that will never end or change.

It is a love he can truly count on while romantic love with the opposite sex is, well, fragile and easily broken. Believe me, he will want to hang onto that. My son now knows this and will never let love for a girlfriend break our relationship. All great advice, Lori. I'm afraid we have failed miserably with my son's recent girlfriend. Well, they have been going together for four years. At first we got along but then we discovered she steals things So things are a bit strained to say the least. But we keep working at it and we keep the lines of communication open.

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Dear Concerned, I am sorry to hear of your grave situation. Indeed, it must be very difficult for you to witness the neglect of your grandchild. I can't help but think that your son isn't capable of making sound decisions for himself let alone his son.

He does not seem concerned for his son's health and well-being. You will not get far in discussing this with him or his girlfriend. Say nothing critical or they will resent you. HOWEVER, you can tell your son that if the child's school gets involved, he and his girlfriend will be reported for neglect and this can cause him to lose custody of his child. He could be returned to his mother and if that is not possible, then perhaps you can gain custody or at least guardianship of him. Before you act on any of this, I suggest you speak with a family court representative or attorney to see what your rights, as a grandparent, are.

There are a lot more resources for grandparents today. It honestly sounds as if neither your son or his girlfriend are fit parents. Please seek legal counsel.

This is not a matter of "getting along" with his girlfriend. Please do something for your grandson's safety and well-being.

My son recently obtained custody of his 3 year old son after a 2 year custody battle. During this time he started dating a woman he met online from another state who was pregnant with another man's child. Based on information shared with me she was still residing with the other man.

My son started dating her while she was still pregnant. Her baby was born Dec My son has a three year toddler who is in speech therapy because of delays in his development resulting from his neglectful mother. What concerns me is that this new woman and son moved near me without her resolving her financial situation in the other state and that this new woman claims that my son would have her hide in the closet when my ex-spouse and his step mom would visit him. During that time, my son was dating this new woman and she was still pregnant and also directly after the birth of her child.

They moved near me with her baby was about 3 months of age.

The woman has been on unemployment since sometime in the early days of her pregnancy and has allowed the property she owns jointly with her childs father to foreclose. She is always asking my son to ask me to help them and her financially. My ex-husband and I have both assisted my son during the custody battle with financial matters.

Now this woman is expecting us to resolve her issues. My son has turned all care of my grandson over to her and she is neglecting him horribly. We have tried to talk with our son about what we felt in the beginning was just typical new mom depression or her being overwhelmed. The woman has started expressing dislike for my three year old grandson.

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She won't bath him or put him in clean clothing and seems to be extremely harsh with him. During this time I have tried to be as kind and helpful to my son and his new girlfriend. I have not said anything critical of her until a few days ago which was after his telling me that she was now claiming all the new clothing purchased for her baby who is now 9 months old.

Everything she puts my grandson is has stains on and is usually filthy. She is constantly saying she and her baby are sick, so my son brought some things to me to laundry since he was working extended hours after finding that he himself didn't have clothing and that is when I discovered all the toddler and infant clothing covered with mold and mildew. I sent hours on my patio scraping the mildew off and letting it sit in the sun to kill off what I could. I bought borax and washed all the clothing in it and even did a second wash with a vinegar rinse before taking all the clothing and hanging in the sun to dry.

What occurred next is when I saw my son next I pointed out the stains and explained what I had to do. He told her and then called me later to tell me that she was highly offended and never wanted me to do their laundry again and that all of that clothing belonged to her son. The thing was I had purchased most of those outfits for my grandson who is three and was starting headstart within that month, so I knew they weren't her childs. When I bought my grandson those items I also purchased clothing in 12 month size at her request for her son.

I was extremely hurt and said so to my son.

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