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Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. I apologized over and over but at the time, I felt like the worst person in the world. But for her, it was two months instead of two weeks. She told me about another girl he had done the same with, after her and before me.
She told me how he blocked her from everything all of a sudden, giving her no reason as to why things ended so suddenly. He broke her heart. Right after she stopped seeing him, she received a similar message from his girlfriend. When she heard about the other girl, she told the girlfriend.
The girlfriend questioned him- this was the second time. He was apologetic to the girlfriend telling her that it was a mistake, that they would get married, and that it would never happen again. When the girlfriend asked him, he denied my existence to her.
I told her the truth. Her boyfriend of a year and half had cheated on her three times in the span of four months.
I told her she should end it with him. She seemed to be blinded by her love for him.
I had no idea that he was double-timing his girlfriend. I am still unable to wrap my head around this whole thing. It angers me that someone can seem so believable and honest, when in reality, everything is actually a lie.
Nothing terrifies me more than being so close to someone and then watching them become a stranger again. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time. No matter which way you slice it, there is clearly dishonesty on his part.
From your email, it sounds like he is under the impression that the two of you are hooking up, not pursuing a relationship. But you also hooked up under the understanding that you were both single.
Y ou might not want to hear this, but I think you need to let this one go. Even if you had a talk with him and expressed your true feelings, where would that leave you? You trusted him on some level.
Now that you know, act responsibly — both in terms of opting out of a situation that will surely end in tears for some if not all involved, as well as taking care of yourself and your feelings. Step away, take care of yourself, and, in the future, get clear with yourself about what you want from your relationships. If you have a question for me about love, sex, breakups, single parenthood, iPhones, toxic friendships, avocado toast, Siouxsie and the Banshees, or anything at all, email me at rarelywrongerin gmail.
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