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It might be important for him to fish and hike in the wilderness. Even though this might be a little strange or even scary to you, see if you enjoy it too. In the worst case scenario, you are a bit bored but get a nice dose of fresh air. Many other nationalities must feel that Finns are quiet and reserved. Neither style is wrong.
Most of us Finns have a need for space and silence, also within our families. Blending into a more communal culture can be quite a shock for a Finn. Showing support is the best thing you can do. In some countries, girls are taught that they may meet the man of their dreams on whatever quick visit to the store. Thus, they are always prepared and dressed to kill when they go outside.
In Finland, girls are taught the following: The man of your dreams will probably see you in horrible influenza, when you are too drunk and when you are delivering his babies. Hopefully, not all at the same time, though. What I am trying to say here is that a Finnish man will, for sure, love you without any makeup or a fancy wardrobe.
Most Finnish men say that their ladies are the most beautiful when they are coming from a sauna, all fresh and rosy-cheeked. Hey, are you looking for more relationship related information about us Finns? Check out some of the other posts: One blonde, travel-loving, Finnish engineer driving this site. Hi, Is it normal for a Finnish man to read your text, and not respond to what text is about, and then text you back about something else?
I hope this helps! Firstly, I really like your writing style and sense of humor! This was an amusing read. Everything you wrote here is whatever I find sweet about one particular Finnish man.
I guess moving to Finland will be my next plan xD. Thank you so much!!
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Home About Who is Varpu? Are you dreaming of a relationship with him but have no idea how to proceed? However if you are particular about a more sedate evening, you can expect to be treated to a conventional dinner date.
However if you still insist on trying real Finnish food, your partner would probably end up ordering things like sausage, pea soup, meatballs, pizza, mashed potatoes, hamburgers, fries, ad meat sandwiches — which Finns actually eat most of the time. The one thing you can look forward to while hanging out with Finnish guys is having lots of coffee.
Finns are avid coffee drinkers and when in their company, you will be offered coffee all the time. And It is customary to drink at least one cup each time.
The culture of Sauna Your Finnish boyfriend will probably be eager to showcase the culture of Sauna when you are visiting his country. Traditionally, the oven is heated with firewood, but electric sauna ovens are almost as common. Almost every Finnish house has a sauna — here, it is not considered to be a luxury. In the sauna, there are several ascending wooden benches "lauteet" for sitting, typically three or more levels, with the highest place being the hottest. When everyone is seated, water is poured upon the stones. Actually the sauna does not get any hotter, but the steam makes the heat feel much more.
When in the sauna, you may be offered a drink like lager, beer or cider. The traditional sauna food is grilled cheap sausage "lenkkimakkara" with mustard and tomato sauce and in fact sometimes the sauna is also used to prepare food like slow-roast pig and grilled sausages! In Finland, it is common for whole families go to the sauna and when in there, people take off their clothes. So be careful of what you are getting yourself into, since in Finland people are much more accepting of public nudity than in most other parts of the world. Finnish celebrations Despite your Finnish boyfriend not being an enthusiastic conversationalist, he will be sure to let you have a good time.
The first season of celebrations is at Christmas time which apart from all the shopping and partying also includes a customary visit to the sauna; this season also includes New Year which is a time for large-scale feasting and drinking. The other time for celebration is the Midsummer weekend which falls somewhere near the end of June, after 21st day.
Usually everyone gets at least four days' vacation at Midsummer weekend and they spend this weekend away from home like a mini-vacation. If your Finnish guy is rich, you can expect to spend it at his summer house — relaxing in the sauna and indulging in luxurious hospitality.
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Even if your boyfriend cannot afford all that, you can have the time of your life accompanying him to a rock concert many of which are organized during this time in Finland.