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I was 24 and living with my parents and figured new year, new me, right? He then proceeded to tell me about his anti-sex Catholic upbringing, his desire for a homemaking wife and his penchant for feet.
Turns out, he had other plans. A week later, he appeared at my place of employment… for a—wait for it— interview. He reached a whole new level of creep. Once he got hired, I requested shift times that did not overlap with his. Hate to say I told you so, but… JK, I love it. When I was 17, this guy from the high school across town would not stop texting me. Anyway, this dude kept asking me to hang out at his house—which I was not at all interested in—so I switched it up and asked him to meet me at the local coffee shop.
I figured, this way, I could see if he was down to talk or if he just wanted to hookup. Unsurprisingly, it was the latter. We went to the same party a few weeks later, and he a acted like nothing had happened, and b tried to make a move. After online dating for a while, I was so over exchanging endless text messages before actually making plans for a first date.
Instead, if a dude seemed to have decent spelling and a job, I was down to meet up and decide in-person if there was something there. I set up one such first date at the pub down the street from my house.
In the hour leading up to the date, my phone would not. We sat down in a booth and he immediately starting talking about everything from his childhood to his job.
I started ordering doubles. OK, so what are some ideas you have for inventions? He proceeded to tell me about how he wanted to revolutionize the typical kitchen, constructing a wall with a variety of different sized slots in it. We will continually post wild dating stories for your reading and learning pleasure!
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The next few weeks we spent some quality time together.
Now realizing the mistake I had made, I excused myself to the washroom and left him at the bar. She explained to me that she had gotten stopped by the police a few months ago in a friend's car. Wearing a fake HazMat suit. This is my story of the prom date from hell. Sure, eventually someone farts in front of the other.
I had opened up to him in a way I had not with anyone for about 2 years. Despite that, I felt the way he was interacting with me during the time we were not seeing each other was odd. I knew for sure he was not being honest with me. The following week, I did not contact him much. I wondered why he was not on facebook or any social networking sites.
He seemed almost too private and secretive. And I had also asked him to send me some pics of him some friends asked to see what he looked like but he didnt send any. I was rather disconcerted as I really did like him and couldnt make sense of his behaviour. So I effectively told him to man up and tell me what was going on. I knew he actually liked me and we had a connection that you cant really fake. He liked spending time with me as much as I did. I didnt get any real answers to that. I was really upset the next few days but thought I should just accept that, so I didnt contact him anymore.
But few days later he texts me to say he wants to see me again. I let my emotions and feeling get the better of me and he spent the night.
Afterwards, things still didnt quite feel right so maintained my distance. After finally realising that he is not going to see me again. He came around to talk.
He tells me about this guy he met online a while back who got obsessive and threatening, that has shaken his experience. I emphasised and some things start to make sense. I also explained how upset I had been not being able to figure out what was going on with him, when we clicked so well and always had a great time together.
A few days later he wanted to talk again on phone. And then the real bombshell dropped. He didnt live in Westferry but Bermondsey. He doesnt have a chemistry degree, he had dropped out of uni. Being rather nauseated, I wondered for a second if I was on a soap opera. These things just dont happen in real life. What are the chances? He knew from day 1 I was a genuine person. I made a point about honesty while we started dating and things developed. This guy had been lying to my face for 3 months, while we were spending a lot of intimate time together.
Its also quite telling that it never occurred to him he might actually meet someone genuine and want more then sex. Maybe he enjoyed anonymous casual sex too much. Was I just an anomaly? For days I felt sick in the stomach. So many things went through my mind, all the lies upon lies, the twisted excuses for his shortcomings. He had so many changes to come clean.
Yes everybody can make mistakes, we are all human and can be fallible. But nobody makes mistakes of such proportions, it was planned, elaborately calculated and executed. As much as my in my mind this was not something one can recover from. My feelings were very much swaying me yet again see the good side. Maybe it was a genuine mistake. Maybe it just got all out of hand. The connection we had was real, neither of us could fake that. So I decided I would forgive him and try to be friends.