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Tell your friend that you don't want your friendship to change, or for there to be any awkwardness between the three of you. Make your friend feel comfortable enough to tell you how he feels about the situation, and if he does not give his approval, consider letting the prospect of dating his sister go. Make sure the sister actually returns your affection.
Thinking Of Dating Your Friend's Sister? So, you're into a good friend's sister. Now, just ask her out, like you would any other woman. You have been best friends since the fourth grade, hanging out at the pool together in the summers, riding your bikes in the woods, and collecting Star Wars .
If there is no chemistry between the two of you, and you have never even talked to her, perhaps you should get to know her first before you ask her out on a date, so as to keep yourself from an awkward situation if she were to turn you down. Ask the sister on a date.
Reassure her that you have talked to her sibling first, and that you just want to get to know her better on your own. Be calm and confident, and above everything else, be a gentleman.
If you act like a jerk or treat her badly, your friend will not approve, and you might lose your chance of becoming close to the sister as well as your relationship with your friend. Gerri Blanc began her professional writing career in and has collaborated in the research and writing of the book "The Fairy Shrimp Chronicles," published in Dating your friend's sister is tricky but can be rewarding.
Meet Singles in your Area! Step 1 Decide whether or not dating your friend's sister is something to which you can seriously commit. Step 2 Talk to your friend before you talk to your friend's sister about your dilemma. Step 3 Make sure the sister actually returns your affection.
Step 4 Ask the sister on a date. View Singles Near You. If you question whether he was being sincere, then revisit the subject; as from my understanding you have some time before you actual would make the trip. If you are not questioning his sincerity, then it may just take you some time to feel comfortable about the situation as, I'm sure you were aprehensive about the whole thing at first; as well as possibly being aprehensive in the past.
If you have time, don't feel rushed to make a decision, whether it be for or against. Continue to talk to her if you are interested to gain a better perspective of whether or not the two of you are compatible. Not saying it has to be marriage material, but it cannot be a hit it and quit it situation. And if you feel that your feelings are sincere, take the woman on a date.
I have dated sisters of several friends. I did address it with my friends before moving forward, and I treat all sisters with respect. Things didn't work out in the end, but I kept my friends and gained their sisters as true friends. ResoluteProtector , May 12, Grapple, you realize everything you do and say infront of your bestfriend will be scrutinized.
If you look at a girl, or comment about another girl it now takes on a new meaning. It's no longer "boys being boys", now its you disrespecting his sister. I married my best friends sister.
When He introduces me to new people I say " Nice to meet you , I'm banging his sister": FURY , May 12, You must log in or sign up to reply here. Share This Page Tweet. Your name or email address: Do you already have an account?
She might want me too; but she's not giving in that easy I adored Bram and Julia and I loved their relationship. Meghan Quinn once again proves she is the queen of romantic comedy! So I applaud the author for that. One date with this girl could have a huge effect on your friendship. But if you do: Usually, the first date is a casing-out process.