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If someone wants to make up the rules as they go along, they will. It may have absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with sex. It could literally be anything. Stop trying to figure out this dipstick. You have WAY more to be focused on! I just hate hypocrisy, and, yes, I do like to have explanations for things, not just on this matter, but on all matters. FYI to you ladies: And no way in hell was I turning back to him or anyone like him. I just hate the hypocrisy, more than anything. And, Grace, I agree that there should be commitment before sex, and that withholding should not be part of a ny game.
I never played games like that…or games, period. I never felt more like a high schooler than with this jerk and the people we know in common…even compared to ACTUAL high school! It is amazing how we worry about not being good enough for people who have no respect for our boundaries. These are very important basics and useful in everyday life as stated.
If these boundaries, and values are held firm in the beginning I think it makes for a much more rewarding and easier life for yourself and others. Unfortunately I never had these coping skills or the knowledge to make better choices in my life. I learned much too late in life. I look at myself and see what a mess I made of things, the regrets, the guilt, the pain and sorrow it all has caused in my life, much of it could have been avoided.
The joy of living seems to have gone from me. Natalie gives of herself, her experiences and her insights. It is hope for those to seek to apply it, there is much to be learned. I also made a huge mess of things and also have mega regrets about how different it all could have been. I swear to God!
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He got some kind of award. And there is hope for you too Hopeful! Live these life guidelines NOW. You will feel better for it. Please validate this as a legit crap-ass move by the guy. I caught my ex a couple of times hiding the fact that he was out with me to certain female friends of his. I realize in hindsight I should have left him on the spot this night in addition to his other shady doings but I stayed and continued to OK his behavior with my presence and silence.
We were all at a party and he was talking to one of his female friends that he had been at a concert with a few nights prior. He always left my name out of the picture and downright ignored to tell them any activities I was involved in. Total BS and I just want to know if anyone else had this happen. You are not going nuts. The whole point of ommissions is so they can keep their options open. In my experience it was supported by online evidence of singledom. Couple photos are never uploaded and tagged with you in….. I hope you kicked the cretin to the curb NC Junkie, very swiftly centurion.
This is my Rolf Harris Jake the peg Ex with the extra leg, diddle liddle liddle lum, one leg in and two running away…lol. I suggest you run yourself! These guys are managing their information on a Need To Know Basis never admitting to more than they need to. Not to be trusted. Will always tell lies and omit. Run like the wind.
Sounds like you are well shot of him.
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NC junkie, Sounds kinda shady to me. I would look at his comment about wanting to be viewed as an individual and not just a couple. Omission, to me, is just another form of lying and is disceitful. I would be offended in a big way and my warning lights would be flashing. His excuse of not wanting to make his friends feel left out is lame, instead he would rather you feel bad?
He just sounds disrespectful all around. He needs to grow up and get real. JG I can almost feel your pain emanating from your posting. Yes, I know how that feels. But I am so glad to hear that you are out of it all now.
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Stop giving room to his omissions. Great post as usual, Nat.
Those guidelines should be taught to every teenage girl in school across the nation! As a mandatory class in self-esteem and self-respect. Repeated from age 14 — 22 once a year. My problem is, I am being told from all sides that I MUST get some self-respect, self esteem, love myself etc so as to make sure I never get used by an AC again, and these are easy things to say and write, but HOW do I find these things?
And people say, Have you no self-respect? WastedLove — Putting the boundaries in place gives you the self-respect and in time your self-esteem lifts. Your self-respect comes from boundaries. Little or no boundaries is disrespect. That one sentence spoke volumes for me.
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Had I read this at an earlier time than my experience in these two past years, I probably would not have got the sentence. My experiences and awareness now are having me really know what the meaning of boundaries is for myself.
I often hung on to what was in the past. Having reconnected a couple of decades later, I ignored the warning signs in hopes to rekindle the person he WAS all those years ago.
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What has emerged…is the reality of disappointment. There was no fairyland I created in my head that would protect me. Oh, I had boundaries but the behaviour that I put up with prior to those boundaries being reached was beyond stupid. I look back now and just shake my head at myself. This is such a wonderful post. It needs to be spelled out for some of us.
Like learning the steps of a dance with numbered feet on the floor to follow.
I am proud of myself, I feel good about me, and I am the one controlling my life for a change. Good advice actually sinks in now instead of bouncing off my forehead. I still remind myself everyday though to continue my commitment to me, to choose me. One day it will be as natural as breathing I hope. It started with desperately wanting my life to change, not knowing how to do it and then finding your site.
Keep taking care of yourself and you will have good experiences.