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No, I don't think it's wrong. I think the biggest issue that you'll run into is the difference of where you're both at in life. Now this girl could be the exception to the. My family seems to think it would be creepy if I were to date a 21 year old. I bertstared them, as this thought never crossed my mind. Currently in.
Besides, even if I looked 29, some guys might prefer more mature-looking women. Unless they're just looking for a ONS. It depends on the guy, his age, and where hes at in life. And it depends on what both women are like as well and how they mesh with the dude. Eh, my ex met me 32 then and a 21yo girl on the same night and got our numbers.
He pursued me and not her. He was 30 at the time. He said that he felt that she was too immature and they had little in common. He also said that he pretty much would not date under 25 girl seriously. Of course, it depends on the woman. Originally Posted by kaylan.
It still depends on the women. Both girls are in their 20s, and being younger doesnt make the 21 year old automatically more attractive, and more compatible with the dude. It's a 6 year difference so i don't understand the competition. I dated a 27 yr old who could easily blend into any college campus. You probably have far greater issues than just age.
Even a fit, well-groomed, attractive and confident 40 somethings can compete with any age. It's all about how you present yourself to the world.
Desirability is not just physical, you should also have the personality to match. And i've seen some knockout moms who made heads turn instead of their daughters. All times are GMT The time now is 4: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.
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Originally Posted by yongyong If it was in a bar situation, definitely No. Be comfortable with it. Not so much a problem, just never dated a younger girl before. She's mature for her age but she still seems young at times; I just dont wanna be one of those guys you who dates such a younger girl then ends up paying for it in the long term emotionally.
Just don't want to waste my time.
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Paying for it in the long term emotionally? Girls in general are a bit more mature than boys at the same ages.
Generally that's why there are a lot of relationships where the man is older than the girl. I work with two people where she is 18 and he is 27 and they've been together a good 9 months and are happy. The only way you will know is if you try. Nobody is saying you have to be with her for at least 3 years or marry her, but if after a couple of months you aren't happy, you can end it there.
I think you're having a problem with it because you're struggling to find any common interests. It's more a product of where she was raised than how old she is. Which is why it works most times and doesn't work others. I was 21 when i met him. Age is just a number as long as you are both on the same page with maturity it shouldn't matter. It's not really that creepy. You're both in the same age range, it'd probably be creepy if you were like I'd say that it was fine.
No, it's not creepy at all. The age difference doesn't really matter because she is legal. I mean I would date a 30 year old if I had the chance to. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is We have been together for 5 years now, so I don't think it's creepy. No it's fine If she was under 18 it would be But if you're not comfortable with it or don't want anything serious you need to be honest.
Well I will say if you find it creepy then probably it is but don't listen to other people, just make decisions which makes you happy and be happy. At your age and her age that difference is okay. It would be completely different, for example, if you were 20 and she was