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Fun doesn't last long. But on a serious note, i completely agree with you. I'm dumbfounded, I always approach guys and ask them what's the direction our relationship is going, if we are moving into serious territory or if it's just a fling and see if we are in the same wavelength. I totally agree with you. Vila Franca de Xira.
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I was ghosted by two women when I told them I was 1. In reality I'm 1. My current girl is 1. When we go out on fancy dates, she wears her heels and amazingly we manage to have a good time.
This, not to mention the 1. Some criticised my hobbies as being childish. I have just two hobbies, PC gaming - I'm even a partnered Twitch streamer so I get paid to play games - and astrophotography. Taking pictures of planets and DSOs is a juvenile endeavour in their minds. TL;DR - Was on tinder for a year, foreign women mostly want sex, Portuguese women have unrealistic standards of others and themselves, found a good looking and smart American woman that likes my shit, will make my life with her, not on tinder any more.
Also did your gf ever commented with you the differences she finds between americans and portuguese guys? Yesterday I made exactly the same question on a comment here on Reddit. I also don't understand why men think that we are hard to date. I think it is because we are affraid that society will call us sluts. Once I saw a video in english about dating in Portugal, more specifically Lisbon, and they said that Lisbon was a city with a provincial mentality. I don't remember the name of the video.
Well, I will of course turn down a guy if he makes me feel bad with myself I don't care about his nationality. Portuguese guys are too touchy and sensitive. You reject one and all the badness surface "hum you are not that pretty to play hard to get". They think they are entitled to girls and can act like a piece of crap and still get them.
Doesn't work like that. With foreigners they are probably not as rude, and also, to a foreigner a portuguese guy looks very exotic. If you are used to live in a country where guys are all blonde, a different one is nice. I think that guys don't know how to approach girls.
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According to my experience they either prefer social networks or they will approach you in a stupid way that will make you unconfortable and therefore you will reject them. I am not sure if by social networks you mean facebook, tinder or so on, or like common friends. Common friends are a bit of a turn off, because all of the sudden you are dating not one guy, but an entire group of friends LOL You can't do anything without having the entire group judging if it's good or bad.
Social networks are good to meet people for shy ones like me. I am not much of a party person and I like to meet people and talk with them and online makes it possible. Though of course you have to take the online freaks but that's cool. Trolls are the worse I can't satnd them, but once I am done with them they are like "wait who is trolling who here?
By social networks I mean facebook, etc not real friends. And like you, I met some guys on fb, but usually were them that talked to me first, because even behind a computer I am too shy to talk to someone first. And unfortunately there are guys who think that you are "easy", if you talk to him first on fb, or other place. My facebook is enterily americanized since I use it mainly to follow the US presidential elections. I friend americans all the time and sometimes they ask me friendship too, one of my best friends is an american guy who asked me friendship and contacted me through PMs.
I also friend colleagues from college if they ask. I friend guys from my town but since it's small and people are too nosy I am careful with who I accept. I mostly like cool open minded people, if they are judgmental they have no place in my life, so I avoid them and it's my right to do so. It's hard to meet someone if no friends are involved. It seems our society has a bigger "friend seal of aproval" thing than others. In other countries it seems you can find a date anywhere and people will be ok with a small date right there, with lots of flirting. That is probably impossible in Portugal.
I may be rude to say this but I don't get how it is not "ok" to talk and meet people out of usual social circle and then have fun. I once met a portuguese guy quite ramdonly help me pick up luggage and we had a great time for some hours. Are this even unusual?
I suppose it's not that bad and it's happening everywhere in the world.
Black dude plays jazz? As long as I liked him and he liked me. I agree with you, there is nothing wrong in that. But for some reason that is not the most common thing. Sure, it may happen with some people, but those are exceptions to the rule. Why should friends approve something that doesn't influence them?
It's the girl who will date the guy, not the friends.
Sure, that's why I put quotes on that expression. Meeting someone because they are friends of your friends is a type of social validation. And for some reason, that kind of social validation is valued really high. But there are people that value that kind of validation from people that are not what I would not call "friends". I mean, people who you spend some good time with, but you would never trust in them completly. Yeah, I think dating in Portugal requires more work than in a lot of the western world. I don't think it's just the girls' fault though.
I think it's a societal thing. Where guys still see girls as sluts if they don't make themselves hard to get, and this makes girls be more defensive when it comes to getting into relationships or sex.
Just look at Tinder and similar social networks in Portugal, which are verry barren since there's still a lot of stigma attached to them. Then there's the fact that since there's not much of a dating culture in Portugal, it's hard to simply approach people by yourself and get to know them. It's especially hard to approach people anywhere outside bars and discos, where people are the most open to that sort of thing.
Which makes it even harder for people like me who don't much care to frequent those sorts of places. Meeting people is mostly done by either working with them or being introduced by friends and family. You could look like Cristiano Ronaldo or a Ralph Lauren model Sempre fui super simpatico, educado, cortes e ate durante muito tempo, as melhores amizades que tive eram raparigas.
Pelo menos como bad boy perdi os tres. Neste mundo, sao as boas pessoas que sofrem. As a woman I was always joked about when I was growing up because I was fat too. I only use reddit for 3 months and in that short period of time I've heard more compliments from guys than I had in my entire life.
So I guess it works both ways. You feel mad that you were rejected by your looks and it's bad. Yet then you go on judging others based on their looks too. You, that suffered and know how it's like to be rejected because something you can't control, should be the last person in the world to do that to others. Yet you choose to perpetuate the system that caused you pain and to cause pain to others too. Qual o resultado disso? I'd say we are not as liberal as other western cultures when it comes to relationships and casual relationships.
It's not snob, simply is cultural. From a women prespective it makes harder for her to have casual relationships, they fear being called whores. For the most men I know, well, I think it has to do with age and experience.