I have learned a few things to help me get by, and to remind me that our love is worth fighting for:. I am aware that people often judge what they do not understand. This is not the choice someone else may have made, they may have gone down a different path, or chosen a different type of partner. I know that this is something for them to process, and not for me to have to explain.
Their fear over our choice to be together in actual fact has nothing to do with our loving relationship and us — it is their problem to solve. In times when I ask if it is all worth it, I look at him and know that I have found the person I do not want to live without. He is the kindest, most compassionate, funniest individual I have ever encountered. Those are the times when I want to hug him tighter, tell him I love him, and just show the world that this can and will be a love for as long as we are lucky enough to have each other. I now realize that it is not my role to win over family, friends, or anyone else who may wish to make a statement about our relationship.
When I read or see negative behavior toward me, I sometimes want to scream and cry. Moreover, I often want to hide away — to avoid family functions, social outings, and not have to face people eye to eye.
But I know that hiding, crying and shouting does no good; I must show up as myself, courageously and yet graciously, and be the best person I can be. For those of you reading: Be a catalyst for change: And for those readers who are in a similar position and find your relationship judged because of religion, race, sexual orientation, age, or something else, be proud of what you have.
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A girl can do it,but for guys it is weird. Maybe a few days older,but not a few years older. Because your a girl,it isn't weird, but for guys it doesn't make since. I'm sorry,but it doesn't. Blah blah blah blah. If you are less then 18, you're a relative baby in the dating world.
You'll see what I'm talking about later if you don't now. Age difference gets less important as you grow older because the big dating inhibitor is not attraction, but what stage you are at in your life. Life changes faster the younger you are. When I was 16, a fourteen year old was definitely too young.
When I was 17 a 15 year old was really stretching it but if she was mature, I guess it might work. When I was 18, then 16 was the minimum but none of them were able to talk me into it. I was going off to college soon so I stopped dating seriously to avoid heartbreak, then fell in love with a girl and dated anyway haha. Once you get older then that most people tend to be forming their own standards of living, and you no longer have to ask the question. If my 12 year old posted this, I'd kill him. Hey, i found your picture online.
Im 13 and my bf is Should that be a problem? We both love each other and we are also of a different religion. Should i marry him when I'm The most we could ever be would be friends. One of my best friends is a guy a few months younger than me and he's basically everything you described.
And he likes me a lot but I just don't see myself with him cause he's younger. Truust me, that's a rare occurance. Baaad idea to be honest. Rather date a few years older. Oh sorry just read the description before I just answered the original question, obviously I'm not the age you're looking for, but yeah my opinion still stands. You're a year younger than me and I still don't think I could. Yes I would date a guy who is years younger. There are some nice, mature, good looking younger guys out there. I am in a similar situation actually, I am older and I like a 19 year old guy.
No unless I was really attracted to a guy. I get asked out a lot by younger guys because I look 18 when I am It always make me feel like I am a perv because they are so young and barely legal. Maybe if I was 30 and a guy was 27, maybe. However, usually at the age of 20 - 25, it depends on the girls. Most girls I know are not really to set down and it just really depends. If you are really serious about wanting to date a certain girl, I would really recommend being her friend first because she will either know you are serious and will date you anyways you are also have to realize at that age, you have friends who judge your decision and we are not that strong from their opinion or two, keep in touch as acquaintances and he can find girls who are at your age.
Later, when people are more mature, it is easier to date when you have perspective. I'm 16 and perfer older guys or at least guys my age but I guess I would try to date someone younger if I liked them cause to me age is just a number! Yeah that's understandable at 16 when your already more mature than guys your age why should you go Omg yes I would totally date a younger guy. There's some pretty good looking younger guys out there. I'm 20 soon to be 21 and I've been crushing on a guy who's He's funny, cool, great personality, and OMG he's fine as hell ; I'd like to date him one day I could care less how old he is, not like he's 12 lol.
I'm 21 and my boyfriend s literally 6 months older then me. And that's the smallest the age gap has ever been with a boyfriend in my life. I don't like younger guys.
Originally Answered: Is it okay to date someone 2 years younger than you? It would be . I'm 19 - almost 20 - and he just turned 18 a couple months ago. We' re. But the experience has made me think about how women are college, an age difference of just a year or two can make you feel like you're a world apart from someone. 2. The Idea That Women Shouldn't Date Younger Men Is Sexist being introduced as "this girl I'm kinda hanging out with" at parties.
I wanna the baby in the relationship haha. Back than no, I was very popular in school and I wouldn't date someone one day younger. Starting from there until 20's. But my man now , I been with him for 5 years. And he's 3 years younger , But I look really young so no biggie. But I don't know if I would do it again, Just my preference. It all depends on the guy , But I always date older. I'm in my 30's. Considering the fact that I am 19 currently and will be turning 20 in July and my boyfriend happens to be 17 and will turn 18 in September, yes, I would date a younger guy.
I have never dated an older one, in fact. That wasn't by choice; it's just how it turned out. When I was in college me and a bunch of other girls made friends with a group in the year below and a few of the girls started dating some of the younger guys, it wasn't awkward at all. The only thing that makes it awkward is stupid peoples skewed and sexist perceptions.