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Inviting two foreign women over to your bachelor pad in hopes of bedding them both is in no way a clever ploy. Women often couchsurf in pairs because they specifically want to avoid being sexually propositioned.
Not just a dating service: It turns out that Couchsurfing's hookup culture is not only known, but actively exploited. A Business Insider article calls. Although Couchsurfing isn't a dating site, when you're picking hosts or guests that you might get along with, and they're of the opposite gender, it seems quite.
It is a safety net that will more likely block your advances than fall prey to them. So you have a mutual attraction to each other. You get to know each other. You finally fool around. It is perfect, consequence-free bliss… Maybe. Except unlike the aftermath of a bad first date, you cannot just blow off your couchsurfer. If you fool around with them on day one and discover that they drive you bat-shit crazy by day three, things are going to get awkward. This turns into an exercise in extreme avoidance or an exercise in uncomfortable sympathy sex.
Either way, be prepared for the possible fallout. July 11, at March 20, at 2: I am subcontinent Asian,and i live in Indonesia few years. Literally she was not that stereo type polish.
Because she travelled lot. We talked almost all night with bear… many many topics…. March 20, at May 13, at 9: Well, this is what it feels like to read your blog.
Because yeah, being American makes your dick 10 cms longer. November 17, at 4: Oh, the amount of hypocrisy in this world!!! Rather than blaming the man who dared express his honest opinion, blame our society that has chained and laid the guilt trip on female sexuality for thousands of years…. July 26, at As i m French, I just confirm what you said about untouchables gals in France u look at em they just dodge you , but overseas they behave like little sluts eager for some torrid and hot sex they feel less guilty when faraway from home, no one to judge her behavior.
December 7, at 5: February 16, at 8: December 7, at 7: Never invite me to CS at yours! December 8, at 9: December 8, at 1: December 8, at 4: Because IMHO, all the chix that want to stay are ugly or old. January 7, at 2: Sure there will be woman that enjoy the casual sex just like the man does.
I have been an active host and surfer for many many years, have seen in change over the years, but believe me girls.
The only reason I read all of this and decided to write it is.. If you find the women that enjoy the casual romance you share.. December 8, at 8: You know why a girl might have a ton of male friends or hosts on CS? And you know why I stay in a place for more than 2 nights? Because what on earth are you going to see in 3 days?
And who wants to pack up every 3 days to couch hop, either? Yeah, we may get carried away with the excitement of a new place and new people, but you can still be a decent guy instead of seeing your guests as free prostitutes. December 8, at December 9, at 9: December 9, at January 6, at 3: August 10, at 9: When i travel as i eat and drink i like to bang everyday. Lets enjoy it not depress it. I can ask any girl to fuck and if they consent lets do it! January 14, at 5: February 13, at 2: Men love to project their dirty fantasies onto women.
How is he taking advantage of females? Some women, by the construct of their nature , are just naturally easy!
Some women are worse than men. October 27, at November 17, at November 17, at 5: We are nothing but two-legged mammals walking around a tiny rock hurling itself through the Universe. Morals is a very flexible concept, things we believed and worshipped two hundred years ago no longer hold place another two hundred years from now. December 29, at 8: OMG you couldnt sound stupider if you tried!!
Did you grow up in a barrel or something? How can you sound so smallminded and uneducated? Plus the way you talk about girls, cultures and nationalities is disgusting. Just a heads up, its super hard and it might take a moron like you a lifetime, but hey, what Wouldnt you do just to have sex! I Would never ever sleep with you, yuck. November 22, at 7: You really got your knickers twisted over this article! Instead of being full of puritan anger, save your energy and accept the truth as painful as it is. And what is wrong with girls sleeping willingly with the guy who hosts them?
The article is so sexist! Although most of the time I singled them out purely using my gut by quickly scanning their profiles, I decided to see if there were indeed common factors in the profiles of the chicks I banged. Violations of these policies may result in a range of actions including, but not limited to:. Jo December 8, at 4: Because yeah, being American makes your dick 10 cms longer. Not to mention annoyed over time.
November 19, at 1: Congrats on not being able to talk to women in person, and having to use an Internet site that was made to HELP people, to get women back to your place. Taking a positive, helpful idea and turning it into smut. November 22, at 6: And I am sure, every single one of those girls who slept with their CS host did so because they wanted to.
Rather than blaming the man who only dared express his honest opinion, blame our society that has chained and laid the guilt trip on female sexuality for thousands of years…. November 22, at 9: December 2, at 1: December 3, at 7: Unless you and your friend probably drugged her and just did it without any dignity..
One day some big Georgian guy will hopefully take you from behind while you find yourself deserted in some of those little alleyways you talk about.. And what made me laugh the most, is after all this misogynistic rant you dare to say something about a man with High Value, Confidence etc.. For obvious reasons, you seem like a mommys boy, fucking spoiled brat and intolerable human being. Probably you are also a motherfucker and also fucking with your cousins and sisters although you probably dont have one, since you would respect girls more too if you just catch them sleeping at your apartment or something..
Sick Motherfucker, wake up! December 19, at 6: January 14, at 4: Now every time I want to send a couch request I think what if the host has a similar mentally to you. February 14, at 2: March 6, at 3: You seriously think that women only learn languages because of men? You are disgusting asshole.
You ruined CS from me before I even had a change to try it. March 7, at 9: As a Finnish man I must agree. Please finnchisk, dont be so butthurt. There are multitude of statistics that shows finnish girls are the easiest IF you are a guy from an exotic coutry. March 7, at March 7, at 4: One more reason to not send host request to any guy. March 7, at 8: Thank you for telling this shit to everybody! Example I keep traveling for seeing new landscapes taking photographs and I even travel with my family. So I must be very different one huh. If the person want to learn something she will do it for herself, not just for some contacts.
And if the person travel she may travel for other reasons. October 13, at 1: I hosted a lot of people from different continent; and never had sex with them except my one guest. March 8, at 4: Who is the one living in 19th century here? March 8, at I see that you have no respect for women. I feel sorry for you. You are not a real man but pathetic one.
March 16, at 3: A Russian business associate of mine, and myself were in St. Petersburg and to make a long story short, when the girls in any area, building, street, etc… found out I was Italian, they would trip over themselves and each other in excitement and personal interest. Petersburg I have never seen such a frenzy! Later on during this trip, my Russian associate would pretend to be Italian too, and try to piggyback on the warm welcomes and invites, and after I stop laughing at him, I noticed that it was actually elevating his attention as well.
April 7, at 1: Maverick I like your blog. I am from Nepal. I have one question: I saw a post few months back from a french girl that she is going to visit my country later this year. The site has supported a community of travelers for almost 10 years, despite a rocky transition to for-profit status a few years ago. Couchsurfing is basically an opportunity. You can meet interesting people, and sometimes when those meetups happen, sparks fly and the couch never gets used.
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