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As the conversation goes deeper, so do the drinks, and before I know it she is ordering the 4th round. Then she suggests we do a shot on the next one! At first I was a bit surprised, but then I found it sexy. This gal is asking me to man up and keep up with her, so my male machismo kicks in and I throw back a double of Jameson. We get into our careers and she talks about the success she has been having the past two years and the financial freedom it has given her.
She then suggests that I am not living up to my fullest potential and could be doing more with my career. Again, another surprise that gets me to pause, but I find it sexy that she is challenging me to be a better man. I head to the bathroom while she orders one more round as the bartender calls out last call. I was thinking one drink. But, she was ordering away, so what can ya do?
You drove all the way here, so I pay for the drinks. I have to admit, I was finding her constant expression of masculine energy to be quite sexy, so I gave in again. We went to her car and with her aggressive nature, I was expecting that she would invite me back to her place. The hunter was starting to come out. Instead there was a ravenous kiss at the car and she said good night.
Caught me by surprise. But I was excited. This gal is sexy, confident, and I have so much to learn from her. I could really see her pushing me to be a better business man and to move further in my career. She believed in me and I thought it was so sexy how she had done so well and believed in me doing well. In short, I was excited and game to move forward! The next day, I call her to tell her I had a great time. I got this covered, thank you very much.
But, what could I expect? I was playing along the whole time! There were a million Alpha Female signs all over the first date. Now if my momentary state of feminine energy would have grown into a life long shift in energy, then she and I would probably be off to the races. We did have a great connection, mutual beliefs, mutual respect, and definite attraction.
Today we are going to talk about what it means to have masculine and feminine energy and why it is important in dating. Masculine energy is all about action. May 22, Masculine energy is all about breaking free from constraints, overcoming, Giordana Toccaceli is an International Dating, Relationship and.
However, the truth is that she is a masculine lady who likes to take charge, drive the ship, take action, and adores a man who follows her lead and offers emotion, awareness, and love. And if you are a masculine energy guy, that is ridiculously sexy and arousing for one night, but for a potential relationship, it quickly deflates your sexual drive and immediately creates a neutral zone fit for a solid friendship. So if you are a masculine guy, know what you want and beware of the ravenous attraction to a masculine energy woman.
Odds are, it will be great sex, and that is it. And for the ladies, if you are a masculine energy lady, know that you must be open to a feminine energy man. This happens when a woman gets hurt. A little boy learns to create a feminine mask in childhood.
This happens when he has a powerful father that dominates, or a mother who teaches that being masculine is bad and rewards pleasing behaviors. A little boy learns to put a masculine mask over his feminine mask. This happens when a boy realizes that he is not attracting females. A man learns to put on a strong feminine mask.
This happens when a man has been hurt by women and learns to please them. When you become able to embrace your true energy, be it masculine or feminine, you will not only be true to yourself, but you will be able to give your authentic self to your partner. If you do not, then you run the risk of depolarization. Depolarization occurs when partners no longer have the play of masculine and feminine energies between them. Both partners are channeling the same type of energy, which causes the relationship to become stale, tense or unbalanced.
Similarly, if a feminine person is criticized for looking run down or worn out, this makes them feel less radiant and unloved, and they will start to shut down. The feminine partner feels too insecure to relax into their femininity, and the masculine partner is bent out of shape and loses his masculine backbone.
Many couples spend years this way and get used to the loss of passion. However, attraction can shift in a matter of seconds — a woman could go from tight and controlling to free and radiant once her partner makes her feel appreciated, needed and loved. The masculine partner needs to learn to embrace the feminine force of life, no matter how wild and destructive it becomes.
The feminine partner needs to not shrink when faced with the strong, powerful presence of her masculine partner. We must learn to trust the wisdom of the masculine and its ability to act clearly in spite of emotions and to embrace the wisdom of the feminine and its inherent intuition and focus on love. What can we help you find? The 1 law of attraction: Polarity What you will learn from reading this article: What is sexual polarity? Who are you at your core?