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I have no idea what that's all about. I don't know how to handle relationships. Alot of my friends date younger guys and they have great relationships I don't think age is really an issue for most couples depends how bothered they are about others opinions. Would a 21 year old guy date a 25 year old girl? How do you manage money in a relationship?
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What Girls Said 4. Most Helpful Opinion mho Rate. We tend to all gather regularly as a group on the weekends, and I work long hours during the day, while she works long hours during the night, so we rarely actually see each other alone, its usually within the group. Lately, basically since she's turned 21, she's been making very obvious comments to me out loud amongst the group that imply she's interested in more than a friendship, yet, she does not make these kinds of comments to other guys, so I'm relatively certain she's interested. Further, she puts off a lot of other signals as well, such as touching me randomly on the arm, neck, trying to tickle me, etc.
All of these things she only does to me. However, whether she is interested in me or not is not what I'm asking for advice on. What I am more concerned with is the age difference. I find her very attractive, and we have a great deal in common, so we're able to sit and talk to each other very easily -- that "spark" is definitely there.
I'm of course concerned about how successful a mental connection on a relationship level would be given our age differences, however, I am more concerned with the "perception" of those around us, her parents, etc. Is it OK for a 26 year old to date a 21 year old? Or is the age difference too great, at too young of an age? I understand that a 60 year old being married to a 55 year old is not a big deal, but this is a bit different..
It is also important to note that I am confident the age difference is not an issue to her at all, and I suspect her family is OK with it as well, since about 8 months ago she ended a 2-year relationship with someone the same age as me. Any insight or advice would be greatly appreciated..
Share Share this post on Digg Del. I think that it is perfectly fine to date someone younger then you. She isn't all that much younger. I would go for it. If it turns out that it won't work out then , atleast you tried. Who knows this maybe the women that you may spend the rest of your life with or something. Don't listen to people that say that you are too old for her. IT's your life date who ever you want.
You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past.
You don't try to forget the mistakes, but you don't dwell on it. You don't let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. Once people pass the 20 year old mark, there isnt so much difference in age. If you can keep up with her danceclubbing every weekend and zipping all over the place with youthly vigor, then i dont see a problem. It all depends on the indivituals too. I know people older than me that im more mature then, and i know people way younger than me that are much more responsible.
I see no problem with this at all I think that if you think that the two of you would be a good match, you should go for it! The one thing to think about is maturity levels. Is she experiencing "21" and partying it up right now?
Not only take it, but apparently respond to it. You are simply stroking your ego by taking advantage of his naivety. Already hearing the tick-tock of the biological clock, pulling this man-child into your future family schemes is nothing short of deluded and bound to end in tears. I like prompt responses to texts. However, do not try to control her. Their work history experience goes all the way back to selling cool aid, to a hamburger joint to being a waitress some place by the time they are
Or is she on the same level as you are? I don't think age really matters, especially a 5 year difference. If you think that the two of you have a connection, who is anyone to tell you anything different? My ex was 4 years and a half older. From the experience and maturity point of view, he was the best guy I ever dated. And we started dating when I was 19!
Follow your guts and ask her out! The hell with what everyone else thinks. My best friend at the time eloped withe her bf - she got married when she wasn't even Everyone was on their case when they were dating, especially her family. The guy is 14 years her senior and guess what, 8 years later they're still married and still inlove!
And her mom loves him to death!! My ex-husband is five years older than I am-- we met when I was 23 and he was Age was never a problem. We had many similar likes and tastes, and grew to be best friends.