Love, Relationships and Dating Finding that special someone can be difficult if you have Aspergers Syndrome or Autism. I can't talk to my wife about my Aspergers She just can't handle it. If I point out something another aspie author has written about their struggles, and say, "Hey I relate to this, I thought I was the only one!
Joshua Aaron , Jan 10, I've known many that become somewhat misanthropic due to the way they are brought up, and it's easier for them to stay wrapped in hobbies and avoid the outside world if enabled to do so. BlueSky Aozora Jan 10, All times are GMT So we had a really pleasant time together. New you can read more extraordinar. Honestly, it probably depends on the quirks, and how good looking you are.
The bottom line is I can't bring up anything about this anymore, no new discoveries, no reflections. I have no friends I talk to. I'm just totally alone in all of this.
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I'm 31 now, and I'm tired of watching life pass me by. Peer pressure doesn't just end when we graduate high school, nonetheless.
I haven't been in a steady relationship for six years and counting now. All the other women I've seen during that time frame were just using me as a rebound guy, and none of them were serious. I surmise they lost interest after I disclosed to them I have Asperger's.
I always hear women say they want nice clean-cut guys that treat them with respect. However, they go after the exact opposite everywhere I look. They always go after the bad boys that treat them like dirt. They want the rugged guys with tattoos that drive muscle cars. They seem to think I either have the mind of a child or that I'm too weak to survive.
I've managed six years on my own.
I also served time in the military in very harsh environments, so I'm more capable than people realize. Few are able to see that, though. One woman was even so bold as to tell me she was afraid I might bite her face off. Would you date a guy with Asperger's who was intelligent and sweet?
Or would you rather spend half your energy trying to turn bad boys into princes hoping they won't smash your heart into pieces? It's an honest question. It does have a direct impact on my interpersonal skills. Don't you know it's part of the autism spectrum? I didn't ask you you your opinion on labels and whether or not they have any intrinsic value. I'm asking whether or not they'd be willing to take the time to actually understand my disposition or if they'd just take me at face value. Originally Posted by misswee. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum.
Finding that special someone can be difficult if you have Aspergers Syndrome or Autism. Use this forum to seek advice, ask questions and share experiences. I'm 19 and I've had 2 short term boyfriends in the past, but both left me because of my Asperger's. The first because he "didn't want to date a.
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You may not vote on this poll. Page 3 of Advertisements Some women would, whilst others would not. Middle America 35, posts, read 39,, times Reputation: Originally Posted by Neemy14 Yes, but you're presenting only two options: ATL with a side of Chicago 3, posts, read 4,, times Reputation: