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You're both in the same age range, it'd probably be creepy if you were like I'd say that it was fine. No, it's not creepy at all. The age difference doesn't really matter because she is legal.
I mean I would date a 30 year old if I had the chance to. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is We have been together for 5 years now, so I don't think it's creepy. No it's fine If she was under 18 it would be But if you're not comfortable with it or don't want anything serious you need to be honest. Well I will say if you find it creepy then probably it is but don't listen to other people, just make decisions which makes you happy and be happy. At your age and her age that difference is okay.
It would be completely different, for example, if you were 20 and she was No this is not creepy, you are both over the age of 18 adults.
Now if you were both still in school then it would be a problem. Since your both adults its legal.
Is a 27 year old guy dating a 20 year old girl creepy? Is too much of an age difference? Met a girl really like her but found out she's We've a;ready slept together but now it seems like she wants to get serious. TimboG , Dev and flybonzai like this.
I kind of see your point, but at our age I'm 26 we sort of are in the sweet spot. That graphic applies a little if you're trying for someone your age, but if you're not I like to keep my age range , there are some endless options. So I was dating in that pool, as well as the older divorced girls.
A good many 21 year old girls have little real life experience, and are romantic and naive. Guys of that age, Dating Advice for Teenagers. +3 Is it wrong . On the flip side by 27 the man probably has themselves established. Maybe he's a. I don't think it's particularly inappropriate, I just think you might find a hard time finding things in common, particularly if she's living on campus.
Tough place to be in, but honestly you can still have a blast. I had more fun dating in my late 20's than I did in my early 20's because I wasn't so worried about getting married.
But then I did. Last edited by flybonzai , Aug 24, Yisc , Aug 24, CokeMachineGlow , Aug 24, I'm 27, and you just made me worried. Jag , Aug 24, Lightsout32 , Aug 24, GameGeek , Aug 24, Dev , Aug 24, BlackKid and Lightsout32 like this. Kane99 , Aug 24, CUBE17 , Aug 24, I don't see much of a difference.
Some people at 40 look just as young as year-olds. I'm turning 30 in a few months, and I've never met any stranger who hasn't thought I was Besides, even if I looked 29, some guys might prefer more mature-looking women.
Unless they're just looking for a ONS. It depends on the guy, his age, and where hes at in life. And it depends on what both women are like as well and how they mesh with the dude.
Eh, my ex met me 32 then and a 21yo girl on the same night and got our numbers. He pursued me and not her. He was 30 at the time. He said that he felt that she was too immature and they had little in common.
Besides, even if I looked 29, some guys might prefer more mature-looking women. The reason I asked this question about me being "okay" with dating an older woman, was reading a okcupid research article saying how most men compete for younger women, and there were guys in the comment section saying things like "Yeah if you can't get a younger woman its because you got priced out and you suck" I tried to not let it bother me but it did. We have been together for 5 years now, so I don't think it's creepy. When I was in my early 30's, I had a short relationship with a woman in her early 20's. The age difference is perfectly acceptable, and i know plenty of successful couples with that type of age gap. I remember a ton of lady-persons who were 31 at my 26 and I didn't give a rat's patoot about our respective ages.
He also said that he pretty much would not date under 25 girl seriously. Of course, it depends on the woman.
Originally Posted by kaylan. It still depends on the women. Both girls are in their 20s, and being younger doesnt make the 21 year old automatically more attractive, and more compatible with the dude. It's a 6 year difference so i don't understand the competition. I dated a 27 yr old who could easily blend into any college campus.
You probably have far greater issues than just age. Even a fit, well-groomed, attractive and confident 40 somethings can compete with any age. It's all about how you present yourself to the world.