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Note that the data from the database is accurate as of , so you will not be able to see any profiles created since then. You can check for newer profiles by creating a profile on a site. Many dating websites allow you to create a profile for free. You can create a profile on a site and then use it to see if your husband has his own active profile on the site.
If your husband allows you to use his smartphone, then you can check his phone to see if he has any suspicious dating apps installed. These are all exclusively dating apps. Check all folders on the phone as sometimes these apps may be hidden in folders. I think it was caused by: We were fighting a lot about money, and she went and found sex Was this helpful? Be careful because people can become so obsessed with finding the truth that they end up pushing the other person away.
She was wrong to cheat on you, and it will take some time to rebuild trust. Just don't go overboard trying to prove still she is cheating.
At that point, you may as well break up with her and save yourself a lot of wasted money searching for empty truth. You could also attempt to see her internet traffic by installing a packet sniffing tool such as Wireshark on your home network. With a little bit of fiddling, you'll be able to see what connected devices are doing. He is always hanging on his phone, sleeps with it, lies and says it's the wrong number, or he won't answer it and lets it go to voicemail.
Please help, this has been going on for 10 years, he has done it before, and I caught him. I believe he is still cheating and is on dating sites. OK, so my husband rarely answers his phone yet sleeps with it by the bed in the event of an emergency while we are sleeping, though we don't have a landline at our house. Since this has been happening for 10 years, it is now a habit or pattern or character trait. Since you have serious suspicions, perhaps you should attempt to have a look at his device by either asking or secretly.
You may be surprised to learn that he just does not like speaking on the phone, and nothing else is wrong.
If you want absolute proof, you may want to consider hiring a reputable private investigator. Possibly Tinder or Craigslist. I am trying to figure out if she has been posting stuff or emailing to anyone. Searching and downloading as many apps as possible. I believe she is cheating, found random pics and the map and history is wiped clean Was this helpful? If you suspect there are issues in your relationship, ask her outright about what's troubling you. Aside from monitoring her behavior, ask to see her device.
If she has nothing to hide, it shouldn't be a major issue. As mentioned above, installing a packet sniffing tool and learning how to interpret the logs is an excellent way to see what someone is doing while connected to your home network.
I want to run a check on my own personal email to find out where I am subscribed so that I can delete those accounts. I want to run a check on myself, not on my boyfriend or husband. You can use one of the programs mentioned in the article or type Subscribe in the search box of your email program. You may find some there which you forgot about sitting in Spam. Can I see hidden or things my boyfriend has blocked me from seeing on his Facebook, and Instagram and all other information he might have hidden from me.
What makes you think he is using custom settings to keep you out of seeing all his posts? If you distrust him this much, then don't stay in the relationship. He may not even be hiding things on social media from you. What he can't protect is what others tag him in or comment on his posts so if you are suspicious, start going through his profiles. With a little effort and some patience, you might find something. I'm very scared we are married have two baby boys, and now he's getting sneaky won't let me go through his phone like he used to and it feels like he's hiding something what I really want to find out is if he is cheating on me as he has tried before but I caught on very quickly and put a stop to it I'm so scared and need help desperately.
I would like to know if he is actually cheating not if he has a social media I don't know about. If you must have a definitive answer, you can always consider hiring a private investigator to watch your husband. You could also use a parental monitoring tool like Circle with Disney. Im not dumb though I know he has to be getting messages from girls and sending them out. Is it worth it to stay? And how should I confront him.
Dear Jessica………your situation is as tough as can be because you are doubly vulnerable. We would say to continue loving him, but protect your family by not allowing sex without a condom.
Therapy will likely not work. As you say, he is too immature. But this is not a family buster unless you are the one to bust it. He, like you, needs unconditional love. It would be wise for you to use our course or, at the very least, read one of our books — both spell out much that you need to learn. Your advice is very similar to a program I followed when trying to save my first marriage. For the most part I think it is sound advice, but there are situations in which I think it must be tweaked. I found my husband—again—on a dating site. He lies about everything to these women—age, name, location, job.
I have in the past ignored the behavior, confronted him, and gently asked why. None of it changed the behavior. I am the sole provider in the house. I work 3 jobs. Per his request I immediately change into lingerie when I arrive home. I cook dinner in lingerie.
I maintain the house. I get about 3 hours of sleep each night because he wants me up spending time with him.
You are allowing your anger to rule you. There are other strange behaviors which could be relevant, yet which she frankly denies any cheating. I have more than one degree and have studied psychology and human development. Dear Miriam I know that is why you came to our website. Some smart men got scared; good! After all, everyone of us is suffering through, or dealing with, or trying to overcome one psychological issue or another. You said you worked on your marriage…but how?
When I sleep and go to my primary job he goes online. On top of all this he daily goes through my phone, email, and social media sites; accuses me of sneaking off during lunch to meet with boyfriends; accuses me of being in love with all my exes; and insists that I dress for work just to attract new men. How do you deal with a man for whom it is never enough?
Or am I sacrificing myself for a lost cause? Marcie It is quite possible you chose poorly, and if there are no children in the home who he is taking care of your moving on may be a reasonable thing to do.
If you discovered anyone you think might be your husband in your search of the online dating sites, send him a message and wait for him to respond. If it is your. If you suspect your signifigant other might be using a dating site or app, there If your spouse is using one of these photos for an online dating.
There is a cardinal rule, that we cannot change another. So although you are doing your best in these areas there are some missing elements…. But the children aspect is very important to consider. My ex husband has always been on several sites at once and even lies about his age on them. He said he wants to reconcile with me. He lies and lies. Everytime he got caught he blamed me. Dear Lori We never suggest confrontation because the confronted person will always lie, deflect or…. It is always better to tune into your heart and be the source of love all husbands seek, though sometimes in bizarre ways.