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She quickly accepted, and I helped her move the thing up to her new apartment. She grabbed a couple of beers from her fridge, and we both sat down on the mattress in front of the AC. We talked about how she was new in the area and how she was recruited to take some new job at this huge company.
I talked about my endeavors in grad school and my plan to get my Ph. What started out as very polite conversation eventually became very casual and comfortable. We finished our beers and cracked open another. When she came back to sit down next to me after grabbing a couple more beers, I swear she sat down closer to me, allowing her thigh to press against mine. I was admittedly a little buzzed as I'd just gotten back from the gym and hadn't really had much to eat other than breakfast, so when she touched my thigh, I didn't hesitate. I took her beer, set it on the ground next to mine, and kissed her square on the mouth.
We banged right there on the plastic covered mattress.
Occasionally, I see her coming home from work or leaving for the gym, and we're always very friendly. We've actually hooked up a few times since. I'm so glad my commute to cougar town is only a couple flights of stairs long. We were on campus walking around one night after a date, and we got a little more buzzed on this date than initially intended.
It was kind of late in the evening and campus was pretty empty. We sat down on a bench and started getting hot and heavy. A group of freshman definitely saw us practically humping on this bench and were not so subtle about seeing us. I wasn't worried about it until someone threw a condom at us. While I'm sure that little shit meant well, I was irritated, and we were forced to relocate. We'd already been caught so we decided there would be no harm in hooking up in a little more of a noticeable area.
So, that's exactly what we did.
Out of all the noticeable places on campus to have sex we chose to bang on the steps of the administration building. I'd done more hooking up in college than protesting - which I feel like is a right of collegiate passage - so I figured this was my proverbial 'fuck you' to 'the man. A campus cop had caught us doing the dirty. This girl dismounted so fast, and I started stammering thinking of how we were going to get out of these. We were both somewhat respectable college students, we didn't need to be branded as sex offenders for the rest of our lives. But this cop literally just suggested a couple of other places on campus to bang that were a little more secluded and went on his way.
I swear to god he would have fist bumped me had not my girl been on the verge of tears. Utterly speechless, we basically ran back to my apartment There are some other universities with similar traditions but I - being a skeptic - don't believe in that kind of stuff. I was visiting my sister at BU and had been hooking up this guy who was a little more superstitious than me.
So, naturally, I tried to convince him to step on the crest. This guy was not only in a frat - which meant he was basically conditioned to be a sheep - but a straight-A engineering student; to put it in plain words this guy's worst nightmare was not graduating. Cruises, cities that are near beaches and areas where there are big social scenes are probably your best bet. Chances are, if you meet a chick in a place like that, she may have the same plans as you, which makes the whole process just that much smoother.
You should also travel with a mixed group of guys and girls. This one is true for a lot of reasons, but the biggest one is that it shows that you have a solid, cool social circle with you. Traveling alone and trying to meet a chick might raise some red flags, and make her wonder why you decided to jump on a plane to Hawaii solo. Also, if your game is solid, you could theoretically get her and her friends to hang with you and your friends, which puts you in a pretty good position to hook up.
It takes the two of you from strangers to something a little more intimate when your friends are getting along and will help build some comfort when you whisk her onto the beach to split a bottle of bubbly under the stars. Hotels are another important thing to consider. The short advice here is: No girl in her right mind will follow a guy she just met at Senior Frogs to a creepy motel ten miles away from her own resort.
Ideally, you want to find a resort or a cruise with enough to do to keep you busy and with plenty of options for meeting girls. This is totally up to you.
If you feel like staying in touch seems like the right decision, do it. Regardless, not all relationships are eternal, but special moments are. Sharing your travels with someone you already are involved with can invigorate a relationship.
That time a mermaid gave me head "I was on vacation with my family, and we went to one of those fancy restaurants where they had a fish tank in the restaurant. Like us on Facebook for exclusive dating advice in your newsfeed, and a chance to win cool prizes! The Aussie You hate to hear it, but girls love hooking up with Aussie guys. I had to do it. She left without a trace in the morning, which inclines me to believe she was a literal mermaid. And I imagine it's tough to be hot when you're swimming underwater with your eyes open. Giving away your location can put you at risk.
But… maybe take a few pictures by yourself just in case. Nothing terrifies me more than being so close to someone and then watching them become a stranger again.
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